Published Jun 15, 2021
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Are You Always Affected By Other People's Opinion?

Published Jun 15, 2021
2 mins read
413 words

OPINION by definition means a view or a judgement formed not necessarily based on fact or knowledge. In my OPINION forming opinions and passing judgements a very common human behavior. We all do this just the difference is our way of expressing it but we all do it or have done it in our life at some point of time. There may be a very few people who avoid this tactic which is really good.

Because when you start passing judgements especially without any base it gradually becomes on obsessive behavior and you get so involved in it deeply that it affects you adversely.

There are basically 2 cases in this concept -

  1. You are a VICTIM : People always judge you and comment on you and you for any reason are just too nice to reply back or confront but this leads to frustration in the long run. You get affected by heart but try to hide it that slowly burdens you.
  2. You are the Culprit : Probably not the prefect word to say but this refers to the behavior wherein there is constant nagging, commenting and judging everyone around you for no reason. You get so interested in other people's life that you loose your own identity and this grabs your mind completely. 

In both the cases its very toxic for you personally as well as professionally. And its like a chain wherein what you start comes back at you. This has severe consequences like you loose your friends, trouble in relationships, Clashes with family, various social barriers etc etc.

Honestly its never a right thing to do because we should always try to mind our own business. Obviously in some cases where is there is something nasty or wrong is being done there you can in a very appropriate manner try to advise without being offended or offend anyone.

This should also not be taken as MY CHOICE or whatever, You cannot be always right so the good side is that one should try to understand the opinions of others also as far as our peace is concerned.

Being OPINIATED is a good virtue, one should always have and follow a set of values and have your own view rather than depending on others or not using your brain or just HAAN MEIN HAAN MILANA. That's never a good thing, if you don't have your own view and identity people tend to refer to you or respect you less.

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