Decision-making could be referred to as the process of making choices from various options keeping in mind certain factors, etc. In Psychology, decision making is regarded as a cognitive process resulting in the selection of a belief or a course of action among several possible alternate options, it could be rational or irrational.
Decision-making is one of the most important pillars of our life, it's like the soul around which we breathe. If life is a train Decisions are the engine that drives it. As we grow up our parents tend to decide for us naturally, and gradually things follow on. Sometimes life long our parents decide for us and in some cases extended families or relatives also. This could be misleading also as we become adults but still, we aren't able to decide for ourselves.
Generally, when we decide to decide something there are certain factors that should be kept in mind like- Exploring all the factors, do complete research and background check, have a belief, analyse the consequences, always consult your elders and close friends, take advises, and finally listen to your heart and instincts. After all this comes taking the action and execution process. Most importantly never ever doubt yourself and if you have any doubt give yourself time to think more but not over.
There comes a situation in life when you are influenced by someone, it could be positive and negative. If you have a positive influence that could lead you ahead with guidance and care, but never be too dependent on someone that you loose your own identity, because that way you may become indecisive and handicapped as your decisions will always be taken by someone else.
Negative Influence is when you start following and believing someone blindly that you forget everything, your logic and intellect kind of stops working. This could prove to be very dangerous in life and lead to several consequences not only for you but also for your near ones.
Never try to think and decide things alone, always consult someone before you start. With experience of others you will gain experience and knowledge. And this will make you smarter and you will be able to impart your wisdom to others and move on. It helps you in becoming intellectual and practical as well as make your life smooth.
Remember always not to regret, better late than sorry.