Published Jun 2, 2021
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Friendship
Psychology
Motivation

Enjoy Being Alone

Published Jun 2, 2021
3 mins read
556 words

There are some people, not some there can be many people who don't get involve easily with others near them. I had a friend of mine with same nature. She was intelligent, beautiful and she had all the qualities someone would like to have in a girl. But don't know where she was lost. She make friends but those friendships doesn't last long for her. This happened to her in her school, college and on job as well. No one treated her like she is special to someone, she never became a #bestfriendforever for anyone throughout her life. This doesn't mean she was bad in nature or in anything else. It's just that she was straight forward in speaking, doesn't know how to manipulate things. She spoke what she felt from heart. She also shared her thoughts with one of her friend that she couldn't conect to anyone as a good friend. She said that people want her to speak sugar quoted words even if the person is not worth it. She If there were some groups in people she was just a so called #member of the group but never treated as an important member of the group. She always thought why she cant  be a best friend for someone who treats her like someone special in #friendship not in love relationship. She always just wanted a good friend who can call her as her #besti. These rejections broke her completely and made her alone thinking she can never make good #friends. She spent her many years thinking this. But when people so called friends never gave her so much importance she started to think of enjoying her life being alone. That's what when she realised life can be enjoyed being alone when someone doesn't give that importance in their life. She had all the qualities in her like cooking, dancing, well educated, had a good #job with good earnings, she was #beautiful. Never tried to harm anyone with any wrong intention. Never thought bad for anyone. Don't know what was missing in her which is stopping everyone to be a best friend with her. One day when everyone her so called friends left her alone in the room and went for #partying, she really felt bad, cried and slept. Next morning she simply woke up and went for a walk alone and thought why she need someone to make her happy by calling her best friend. If no one is accepting her the way she is then let's enjoy he life by being her. She is good enough in earning and can manage herself alone. That's the day when she started going out alone like for shopping, even for watching a movie in theatre, roaming around, started exploring new places, eating amazing #food. Finding peace in being #alone is awesome. No chances of rejections. Doing these things made her happy, self dependent and kept away from fake friends. This was the enjoyment of being alone. But I still wanted to know what was the problem with her that no one could become her best friend forever. Are there people in the world who doesn't have a bestfriend in their whole life or they doesn't become a best friend to someone.

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