Oh my god.... Why all these happens only in my life ?... What wrong have I done?... What....why?... plenty of questions Arises inside us...when expected things doesn't happen in our life .... We are more eager to enjoy the moment when expected things happens... But we are not even ready to think about what if unexpected things happen?... Why our lives are like this...
All Parents in all over world are expecting their children to be winners...i can't understand this type of behavior... When everyone wins then who will lose.... Who will write motivated poems, quotes,songs for the runner.... Every one has their uniqueness in everything... Allow them to be themself.... Don't try to dope overthem with your unsuccessful dreams.....
When you start expecting... once it works out.. it leads you to expect In all things you do... It gives pain more than happiness ..
In a relationship expectations will eat your happy moments with them.. if you desire to have your relationship last for longer time... If you stay as an unexpected person from your partner ..it will give you trillions of happy moments in short span of time.... Expectations definitely boost your ego... U may lose your lovable person..... If you expect more and more ....you may judge a person by assuming their character in a wrong way.... Try to understand their situation...it will make strong feeling towards them.... Try to unexpect things.. then you will definitely Stop showing dominance towards them and you like them as you like you..... Expecting things from your partner... It keep on happening...may fullfill your expectations....but it will never fulfill your love towards them.... For example if you love coffee...and you start expecting your partner also a coffee lover... That's not love.. to expect your loved ones to start changing their character just because you want them to....here I will break the silence and reveal the reality behind this is.. let everyone live their lives... because they like the things... Accept your love as they are...
“I'm not in this world to live up your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine ”
- Bruce Lee.
You may ask me.. in your life have you never expect anything ?? No definitely not.. but I would rather say, I am an expecting person who keeps trying to unexpected things to happen...... This is my first blog... so I am not expecting any likes...any comments....any support for me😂
