We all are living a life in which we experience everything and every sort of emotion like happiness, sadness, anger, confidence , demoralization etcโฆ.As the coin has two sides- head and tail , likely there are two situations of our lives that is either it leads to positive outcomes or negative outcomes. We all have faced a lot of ups and downs in our lives and still we are facing it . for instance this covid situation affects everything and everyone like lives of people, income source, loss of jobs and a lot of things.
The side which we wants to choose should be only n only our decision. It doesn't need to be manipulated. Sometimes we made a mindset for something that we don't like it just because somebody else had told us that it is not good.
Everyone has different interests, different qualities and different potentials. So you should choose what you want to go for. Just because you asked for somebody's advice and he didn't give that in favour of yours expectations and you drop that plan..this is not right. Everyone has their own working style, own experiences. You shouldn't be influenced by it.
There are lot of successful people who just followed their hearts and they had done miracles in their lives and now the whole world appreciates them. If they also leave the idea of their own for doing anything, they remains the same as ordinary person.
If one person leaves job because he doesn't like the workplace environment and discipline and he suggests you also not to work there. But it could be possible that he doesn't want to maintain discipline, he doesn't want to do a lot of work..but it can be suitable for you because you are self disciplined person and you love doing work. So you can't leave the idea of doing job there because of his experience and his way of personality. You get different experiences there and then you yourself decide whether you want to do job there or not.
I believe in one thing that whatever happens - positive or negative, reason should be only you, yourself and nobody else. Like If you failed in some exam and u already know that you didn't study well. Then the blame shouldn't be put on others . It is your own doing and your own responsibility . So next time do more hard work with focus and crack that exam. You should leave no chance for regretting. And if you have succeed in something, that means you have done really well that you should be appreciated. It is just because you want to do that and you succeed in doing that. Things should be your own.
If we already know where we want to go, we can easily find roads for going there. In other words, if we know what is our interests and what we want to do , we can easily change our destiny according to that and we would be successful.
Life is waiting for you to write a beautiful story, so take the move in right direction and write that ๐๐๐ค