Love!! What exactly love means? I have heard many things about love. Even seen the concepts of love for bollywood movies. Some people say, it takes fraction of seconds to listen that music song for DDLJ “tujhe dekha toh ye jana sanam” in the background when you find someone. And some also says, it takes time realize that you are in love with the person you live with. 

Well, in my case, there are none of this above situations. I have not yet found that 'Correct Person' i.e. my love. And till now I did not had a crush on someone. This is 21st century, most of many people ‘youths’ have relationships. Singles stalk each others. Speak on social media and explore people. 

As I said, I did not had relationship or a crush. I actually didn't connect to any one that way. I felt it was ok.

Every time when Someone asked me about my relationship, I said “no, I didn't had any”. They were shocked to listen this. They asked me about my crush. I repeated the same. I said them “I Never Felt that something more type of feeling when I look at a Boy.” They laughed and said, “Are you sure, you are interested in boys?" 

At a point, There were too many people around me, who have been asking me the same things. I actually sat and thought about it. I told myself that don't ever listen to those people. I'm not interested in girls and I knew it. The thing is it's my me time. It's not compulsory to love someone at any stage (I'm talking about the soulmate love). You can live yourself. The word LOVE is a 4 alphabet word which means different for different people. It's not only about a girl and boy. It can be between two girls and 2 boys. And also between You and Yourself. 

I'm 21 years old. Life is Big. There are different phases in life which I'm going to see. I believe that the whole concept of boyfriends and girlfriends at my teenage was all infatuation. This is the time to prove ourselves, make our parents proud and explore the outside world. Now, I know that I love myself, My Parents And My Whole Family

This was a small incident that happen to me and made me think. I only wanted to share this to let you know that it's fine not loving someone. Just be yourself. Don't just jump in the train because others are also travelling.

Thank you,

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