Every story has it's own history. Having a good and a bad side. It's us who decide which part we want to see. Or it's the person's choice what they want to show us. There are many stages in our life when we have to choose between the both sides.
To understand this situations easily, lets take an example from our childhood. When we failed to do something, there were our parents how showed the positive side of that coin and taught us to learn from our mistakes rather then showing us the path of depression. It's us, how we look at that coin.
Similarly, When we grew up, there are some people that claim to be our friends. But the fact is, we really don't know who is trustworthy and who will betray us. The person who you think is your best friend might have a negative side of that coin. He might be double faced. This time your decision is crucial as you are the one who will select which side of the coin you want.
There may be some situations at your job place too. When your boss shout at you frequently for completing the work at time. You might see his negative side of the coin. Sometimes, you might be angry behind him. But the main motive of your boss was to help you complete the targets and to encourage you. Only the thing is, his way was little different. Remember there is a two sides of the coin.
Now let's take an realistic example. When we see a beggar by a road, what we think?
Some people give them money and some people ignore them. Thinking that beggars may be faking. They sit whole day by the side of the road and at night they use that money to drink or they just don't want to do anything so they do such things. I don't know what the truth is. But the fact is, there may be some beggars who really need money. Even their family will be empty stomach. If you don't want to give money. Offer them food instead. The needy one will always bless you for that. So please don't prejudice that they are not needy or someone else will help them.
My Father says wear the good glasses. Because our glasses shows us the world. Here, the glasses refers to your thinking skills. Good Thinking leads a better view of our life. If your glasses are black, the world will seem to be bad, corrupt and selfish. Whereas, if your glasses are colorful, you can live in peace, you will be the happiest person.
Thankyou.
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