“ Self love is most important thing………if you can't love yourself you can't Love anyone else  in love the world …..” 

    After the introduction Ma'am start her speaking and we all started getting ready for lecture……..after all it was our first lecture of ELT and we were all freshers of class FYBA……further Ma'am continued………

“Being my students I want that you all should firstly love yourself…….”

“Second thing…..see know is perfect…..you all came here for learning……..so never feel shy if you don't understand or you find Difficulties……I'm here for you girls……

Be relax and calm and just focus on your studies……

And  you are not allowed to speak in mothertongue…..so keep thing in your mind…."

   And we all started to look at each others……..( सब के मन में डर तो था ही……but we all felt huge respect for ma'am in our heart and even today so…..) We felt fear for the second language……how can we speak this all of sudden cause we were all Marathi medium students …….and respect because Ma'am was ready help us any time……..

After that ma'am continue her lecture and we learn our first short story by Ruskin Bond - “ The Eyes Are Not Hear ” { It was a kind of love story the both passenger fall for each other (secretly no one knows but they started liking each others……🤫. But their heart whispers that they can walk miles ahead….,but Alas ! There journey was just for some hours….. ) When girl exit the boy who predend he can see…..come to know that the girl was also a blind like him…..😕 }

This is how the lecture ends…..with goosebumps on our hands…….. little bit sad feeling that if they could met each other for the life time and joy for that amazing story and their amazing bond with each other......

Even after years I can clearly remember that experience....This is how the great teachers are... 

That first line put the great impact on life......I started to love myself because I wanted to spread the love in whole world........

Benefits and Important of self love in our lives

1. Loving yourself our first duty towards ourselves. Nowadays everybody is busy in there routine and packed schedule.....so self care and self love will help you to being more enthusiastic.
2. You can became more efficient and more productive.,...
3. When we take care of ourselves we attract more possibilities and opportunities of ourselves..... ( hope you are talking care of yourself and following proper hygiene....take care guys second wave is on it's full swing )
4. When you love yourself , you take 
    correct decisions for yourself and your love ones , your family , you siblings and everyone around you.
5. You start to accept yourself fully with your flaws and plus points......
6. You don't put negative thoughts and remarks upon you......it builds your self - esteem....... ( Shrimad Bhagwatgeeta ji says "what is not good for you is not good for others " This single never allow you to put negative remarks upon you or other.....)
7. You can easily accept your mistakes and try to change it quickly.......You take criticism as advice in order to make yourself more better , more successful person.....
8. You choose healthy habits and healthy lifestyle  for yourself .......
9. You focus on growth and self development in all areas of life whether it is spiritual progess , physical wellness , mental health , financial abundance.....

How can we implement or practice self love in day to day life.......?

1. You can read books or listen audiobooks on self - improvement . You can give yourself treat on weekends.
2. You can switch simple but good habits...... like talking care of yours personal hygiene  ( cutting hair and nails regularly , taking shower daily , brushing teeths twice a day.
3. You can listen your favourite  music and while drinking juice / tea / coffee in your favorite corner of house.
4. You can start follow you hobbies in spare time. Healthy body is everyone's priority nowadays.....you can switch to exercise like mindful Walk in a morning or evening OR Cardio Exercise OR join Jim OR Yoga...... whatever suits you best and whatever you can enjoy .
5. Filling mind with positivity affirmations , good books , great teachers , great friends , positive people , cause when you develop yourself , When you stared evolving in better and ultimately attract better life for yourself and your sorrounding.
6. You can learn new skills like Writing , public Speaking , Painting , Singing , Oragamy , making collection ( of stickers or pebbles ) or Playing musical instrument......
7. You can start Joy Journal or Gratitude Journal ( Gratitude Journal is best way  to make life more better ).........
8. Sharing feeling with best friend or writing it in diary are also the small acts of self love .

Cause progress take slow paces....you have to go slow in this self love journey.....but be consistent.....

What is self love…?

1. Self love is all about doing what you like and beneficial for others .And feeling good about ownself , feeling good about one's own existence ,  being kind with ownself , giving me time to yourself , having own space for a while , chilling with your friends , pets or children, nourishing your Body , Mind And Soul , doing the things which can contribute your self growth and development.

Doing self love is not selfish at all......cause we are helping our society and ultimately our country.... because we are our countries valuable and important asset.......and it's absolutely fair and fine

         Today's blog is dedicated to my one of the best and favorite teacher on her Birthday who teaches me to love , spreading love and most importantly Self love.....with Lots of love and respect.

     Thank you so much ma'am your every words are guiding me.....Once again Happiest Birthday Amruta Ma'am….!!
 

Hope you guys have enjoy reading this article ......if you have any suggestions regarding to it then you may comment down below.......

Keep loving yourself.......