CONFIDENCE IS SILENCE
and
INSECURITIES ARE LOUD
Today while speaking with my younger brother....I realized big secret of the universe.... Everyone is possessed or insecure about specific things or persons....and it's human nature.
WHAT Is INSECURITY ?
When we feel insecure ?
How to deal with it ?
- When you feel insecure , you feel fear about loosing something..... anxiety about danger.....
Fear is good in some manners or in some amount ( ๐ otherwise being more fearless you will try to hold hot pan in your bare hands. )
It is necessary to protect us. And it's natural mechanism which keep us safe .
But it's harmful in excessive manner.......
Mind reflect from three things....
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTIONS
When we feel extremely insecure about anything it might be....it affects our inner peace......These insecurities makes us wild sometimes.....
That loud thoughts , words and actions....harm us and as well as our surrounding beings.....
Then what should be done to handle situations.
See, if you really want a total control on present and future situation.....You need to learn to deal with your insecurities and anxieties.
๐ 1. CONTROL THOUGHTS
a. Replace it with positive one.
b. Correct things will come to me on correct timing.
c. Keep watch over them whether they true or not.
d. Talk to yourself being your best friend.
e. Tell yourself that
" MY MIND IS IN MY CONTROL. "
f. It's okay to encounter with negative thought , let them come and go.
g. Observe that are they real or my over-imagination .
h. How can solve this problems ? What are necessary steps for now ?
๐2. CONTROL WORDS
a. Don't talk about your problems with everyone out there
b. Use paper pen technique
c. Practice silence for some hours
d. hoose correct elder person for best advice
๐3. CONTROL ACTION
THINK before you are talking actions
-What are the long term consequences ?
-Why am I doing this ?
- Are these necessary or un-necessary act ?
- Will it harm me or others ?
One common difference in common person and successful person is the mindset. And common traits is found every successful person is CONFIDENCE.
Why confident people remain SILENT in difficult situation and even in the worst cases ? How could they do? What might be the reason behind it ? Can we also remain balance , calm and cool like monk in worst senarios ?
Let's check outโฆโฆ..
1. Silence gives you a chance to hear more better , understand more better & observe more better than the others
2. With calm mind you can observe your thoughts , words and actions.
3. Stable mind reflect serenity and spread it around itself.....
4. It develops the king mindset...
" EVERYTHING IS UNDER CONTROL..."
5. " WITH STABLE AND CORRECT MINDSET YOU CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING YOU WANT ! "
6. Everyone has ability to change there situation....it is only about the training of mind.
Correct thoughts , words and actions formula....
-Can help to to find ways ,
- Develop correct mindset towards our fear factors ,
- Teaches you to acceptance about natural rule that Nothing is Permanent
- Can prevent you from unnecessary steps which divert you from your goals
- Helps you to find best possible solutions.
- Helps you to understand that the law of attraction ASK - BELIEVE - RECEIVE
- Gives you the sense self control And control over situation.
- Once you learn to control yourself , you can control anything and you feel sheer joy , strength and confidence too.
- Silent mind can focus more than the others
- Teaches you the art of problem solving
SILENCE is not weakness. It is the act of self control , strengths and patience .
Most important thing you can't concentrate on anything when you're insecure about something.
Believe in yourself that you can get whatever you want. You can make impossible things possible. You are the magic. You can create whatever you want. Believe that it already yours.
BE MORE CALM & COOL
BE MORE CONFIDENT
This was all my side . Hope you enjoy have enjoy it . If you have any suggestions , remarks and views on this topic then please comment below . Let me know where I can improve my writings . Thank you so much for your valuable and precious time .
Happy Reading
Stay Safe and Healthyโฆ.!!
