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Where Love And Trust Have Gone !?

Published Jun 14, 2021
7 mins read
1352 words

Hi My dear Makkalae /Human beings,

I am here to share my personal experience and lessons I have learner from it,

I been in fear for more than a decade after some terrible things happened in my life , First My business Gone down and I was been cheated by my Friend who I brought him in to my business, so I can help him stand on his own in this society as a Successful person, but right from the first day itself he started cheating me on my business, I didn't aware of his ideas beacuse I trusted him, A friend in need is a friend indeed I belive in this Quote, and I always respect Friends and Friendship very much , beacuse I was alone all my school and college days, I grown up with my friends, and I always love friends and I had lots of friends, but because of my Mistake I mean I trusted my friend blindly I lost my career and I been pushed in to debts which my Trust brought me a Costly lesson, Who ever it is even it is your best friend plz don't trust any one  when it comes to business, I have lots and lots of experience in business, everywhere I trusted the trust in every human being , but in return I received Loss of money my career and Trust in human beings as well, I started Thinking where Trust have gone when it comes on Money matters, does Money kill trust ?? I have a big question on  these two Trust and Money, Who kills who? I don't get the answer yet, but I am still searching for the answer where in my journey I have  met Loyal frends and Loyal Humans too, this won't affect them because they kill money instead of trust to bring Trust  back in to Humanity, There are the Keepers of Trust, Loyalty, and Humanity as well, Without these Trust worthy People world will be a place full of Vengeance and Cruelty, I can't even imagine , I even thank God for Restoring these Qualities through these worthy Human beings, even we need more of These kind of people, but unfortunately our world is turning in to Some kind of Weird place where people are cheating one another and Greedy, Even though their Family members or brother or sister, they will cheat when it comes money.plz Stop this Cruelty ,this is absolutely not a  human nature at all, human beings are not created for this. 

WHERE LOVE HAS GONE THE TRUST FOLLOWS !!!

LOVE 

The most precious word in Human Nature is Love, Every single person on Earth would have experienced it atleast ones in a lifetime, where there is Love there will be Trust,I believe, After a Terrific breaking in y life automatically My Girlfriend ditched me like Hell on earth, this is how I felt while she breaks up with me, it happened the very next after I lost my business and she started acting wierd and Lot of things happened between us, I put a lot of effort to Save our relationship, but nothing last much, I was a Party Animal before, I can't be without partying not only on weekends even also I use to go to clubs daily to have a chat with y frends and have fun but I never been to a club as as couple entry, always stag entry with y frends only, I called my girlfriend once, I took her to a club and I offer her a beer , but she refuse to drink, and she even hate me for my drinking habit, even she yell at her dad too for  the same reason, but when things started going the wrong way, she started drinking and one day I caught her up on phone, she called me to as me whether she needs me or not, I found her she was drunked and was so obsessed with her new habit, and I was so worried about her, but she never asked me sorry or any apology for her act, you know what I never smoked or drink in front of her, because I always give respect to women, even when I use to smoke any were outside in public or any Tea shop's , if any women come I will leave the place immediately, but after I came to know that my girl is stated taking alcohol I was like Broken in to pieces,but things have gone even worse than I thought, she came to me one day and She asked a question? Without money what will you do further, and how will you survive this world, which she was living a Hi-fi life style, she is rich and she has a good life style, but after my worst days started she left me behind, just for that I have lost my Business and money, every thing started falling broken and I started drink too much, I thought drinking will Make me Forget her, but you know what it will keep reminding you the incident and the things which you want to erase or forget, I started Using Drugs and have gone too far away from the real world and reality,where ever I go, what ever I do, something will make me to remind her, even her perfume smell will remind her, I was wondering how could a smell can make her remind, after some hard times I realise oh this is not my destiny, this is not what you have came to this world, you have other things to do, and you have a true purpose in your life , but all these years are a lesson for life,I started meditation, yoga and some self therapy to come out of my Drug habits and Drinking issues , year after year I stated to find answers for my questions and I becoming a new person, after 8years I completely came out of every single thing which bothers me and now I feel free, and much of a confident guy and strongest too, now I am completely quit ever single habits and becoming a perfect guy, I started Gyming and started building up my body and my mind as well, now I am totally fine, but what bothers me is where Love has gone when I had y worst nightmare ever when I lost money, Is this is A Lovin relationship, I realised that I choose a wrong person to be with all my Youth days, I was been in vein for all my young age, I can earn Money if I loose it, but I can't earn or get back my Golden days which I spended all these years to realised my mistake, My mistake is I won't judge people, I I don't know how to ? This is what my Huge mistake, and I will never do , I don't want to even, being ourself is oru gift from above, and I let people by their self I don't want people to change just because of me or any situation, but Do's and don'ts apply , like good and bad, knowledge about what we do to ourselves as well as to others,

Many people are not aware of these beautiful energy, they are just selfish enough to have whatever they want, but there is a huge difference between want and need, which not everyone aware of it, but I do and I suffer because if this good quality with in me, I still in a search of the ansi for my question WHERE LOVE AND TRUST HAVE GONE?

“LOVE BECOME MATERIALISTIC AND TRUST BECOME COSTLY, NEVER EXPECT IT FROM CHEAP ONE'S”

“LOVE AND TRUST DESTROY ONE ANOTHER IF ANY OF IT SHATTERED”

BUT DOUBT KILL BOTH

Whether Trust follows love and left or Money  Kills Both of them, defenetely no answer but there is a strong suspect on Money !!

Thankyou All for your valuable time , stay safe , stay home and get vaccinated to fight against Covid-19.

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