Published Jun 2, 2021
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Newly Married & Confused!?

Published Jun 2, 2021
2 mins read
425 words

It's been almost half a year since I got married and trust me when I say this it's been a hell of a ride. This whole pandemic situation has given me a whole new experience of getting married. 

Like every other Indian girl, I've too had a dream of having a big fat wedding but was it really possible? With preparations been altered each time we finalize into something made me realize it better to have an intimate wedding instead. I don't have complaints anyways but the expectations made me feel sorry for myself but that's not it the real mess begins post marriage. The experience of being a new-wed bride.

You see it is no more your 'mummy ka ghar' where you can do things as per your choices, you feel deeply sucked into responsibility on your very first day. The feeling of judged eyes makes you anxious all the time and the only point of comfort is when you see your husband or your family. That is the most comforting feeling ever. So how to deal with it? Let me get you some share few tips that helped me to keep myself sane.

  • Be true to yourself. Don't try to overdo things just to make everyone happy. If you are comfortable the chances of creating a miscommunication decrease.
  • Listen to your husband, he knows his family way better. Give yourself some time and understand everyone at your own pace.
  • Do things you are best at, again do not try to please on the very first day. They will understand.
  • Stay Calm and composed. You will miss your family but think about the brighter side and in no time all your worries will go away
  • Make a close acquaintance apart from your husband that will help you a lot while he is away.

Well now you might know few tips and the rest will work along with your own experience. Managing a new family is difficult and I'm here to share this feeling with you all. Nothing is easy in these difficult times and handling such a situation is definitely a priority. Nevertheless I'm not a seasoned person to share any kinds of dos and don'ts but if you anything worth sharing, do comments down below. Share a little incident or your story with me so that we can help each other grow in this journey together.

Also, stay tuned for more of my experience and how can we deal with such situations. 

Keep Smiling!

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#newlymarried
#covidwedding
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