No matter how strong we show we are but don't we all need love to keep going? Don't we seek someone who stands by us and keeps us motivated throughout the journey?

Well, there are people who are going alone and achieving everything on their own and I would not deny that they are strong enough and don't feel the need for anyone's support or appreciation. They know they are doing a great job and they will keep going instead of not having anyone besides them.

But are we sure that at the end of the day, they don't crave love? Are we sure about their feeling or what exactly they are going through? Might be they show something else on the outside just to look strong enough so that nobody can take advantage of them. 

You know love is something which can make you grow and at the same time, love is something which can destroy at the same time because a partner who is good for you and helps you grow can make your life from dust to sky and at the same time a partner who is toxic and is actually stopping you grown and want you to be bound to them and can't see you achieving more than them or touching high sky but they are somewhere below than you, will make sure you don't grow.

So, it's not love that makes you or destroyed you, it is the person who you choose to go ahead with. No, I am not saying you choose with whom you should fall in love, no I am not saying that, and of course it is not something which is in your control that with whom you should fall in love but when to stop is definitely in your hand.

When you realize that someone is not good for you but you love them a lot. Still, you have to make this hard decision and have to let them go because that what is good for you.

So, if you will ever get to choose the love or person who is better for you. And if that the case that you have to choose either self-growth or that person, never hesitate or think twice to choose yourself.

And as always I say, last but not least choose the love which helps you grow.