Is it wrong to think about the feelings of others when we utter words from our mouths? Is it okay to be ignorant towards the emotions of others as human beings? Well, for me its not okay. As humans of modern age a little rudeness or savageness is justifiable but totally ignoring the feelings of persons other than ourselves is not at all justifiable.

I often hear, that I am a double faced - dishonest person but I want to ask people who judge me as one, is it wrong to think about others before we shoot mean and ruthless words on them? I think a lot before speaking because I don't want to hurt people by saying mean and self centered words. If I want to criticize something I try to come up with sentences and words that doesn't seem rude. Earlier when I was not mature enough to form my own opinions I tried to change myself, I thought being rude is cool, not caring for others is a caution to prevent ourselves from scams and betrayals but as I grew older and learnt more about myself I understood that my prime characteristic is to ‘care’. And if I suppress it then I will end up losing myself.

So, I stopped. I start caring again. I am happy because it is who I am. I care and I wish to accept myself like this only. And my this characteristic labelled me as a dishonest-manipulative-double-faced person but it is okay as this label comes with a million smiles and good wishes. I like myself being this way. I can't prefer myself being hidden behind an honest, truthful and straightforward person after hurting people with my direct words. I think I am more brainy than others because being straightforward doesn't involve any thinking, its like exactly saying what you feel. But considering others before speaking up is an indicator of a hardcore mental  ability as it involves manipulating sentences and words so that it won't hurt.

I believe I am doing a right thing and I wish I won't hurt anyone with my words, remember, as words once uttered cannot be taken back. I still remember being rude to my friend and saying a lot of meaningless things which ultimately ended our friendship but I often regret the way it ended. Our friendship didn't deserved such a bad end, but today I feel it was a good thing because that's what made me realize the importance of words. I now weigh my words before speaking. I wish my experience with words and rudeness and caring people would be of some benefit to my readers.

Thank 'YOU' for reading!!