Why you are not not wearing white T shirt today? I told you to wear white T shirt, I expected you to wear white T shirt then why you didn’t wear white T shirt? 

When they cannot wear one color shirt my way then why would somebody be my way? And most important- Am I ready to be there way? so he can just look back and say -Why don’t you just wear a red saree? Why should I be the way you want me to be? Why can’t you change and be the way I want you to be?

Only because they are different from us. Say you were also right and I was also right,  there will not be a single conflict in any relationship because the conflict is all about expectations. When they do not meet up to my expectations I will get hurt and when I will get hurt I will reject and when I reject I am not excepting acceptance. Rejection is what is happening today. Accept each other.  You are right and I am also right. It's not right and wrong. People just have different likes and dislikes. Depending on their environment, depending on their parenting, Depending on their schooling, depending on their nationality, depending on their culture, depending on so many things to people are going to be different. 

The selfish one-lettered word IS – I . I should be respected like this. Everything revolves around my opinions, my desires, my likes, my dislikes. Everyone has to fulfill my expectations. Everything has to be up to my expectations. People come to God, people come to the temple. People don’t exist in this world to just fulfill your expectations. What do you think people are all existing in the world just to fulfill your expectations. Avoid this word. Be realistic in your expectations.

There is no problem to expect but understand that not everyone will fulfill your expectation. But trying to serve others. You know why because if you want to be served you are dependent on people. They may not serve you when you want to serve who can stop you. When you respect people, people may not respect you. But if you want to give respect who can stop you. Learn to begin your journey from I to you. The more you want for yourself, you remain frustrated. The more you want to give, you will remain happy