The wisdom we have we share with people whom we love because we want to see them in a good mood but we don't share a very beautiful relationship with ourselves and that’s why when we’re hurt we go on talking wrong things to ourselves, To other people, we say don’t take it so personally and to ourselves, we will say how can I not take it personally? To other people we will say- It was not about you, To myself I will say- obviously it was about me, he said it about me. So we have a very different conversation with other people and we have a different conversation with ourselves because about them, we want them to be in a good mood, we want them to forgive, we want them to be happy. To ourselves we live like a victim, we live like a victim who believes that when people hurt me I have the right to be in pain and that's why what meditation does is- First allows me to start loving myself because the first relationship that I will create will be with myself and when I start creating that relationship with myself and I start loving myself and I start respecting myself than what people say about me will not affect because I know myself. It’s always about me. Let the world say what they want to say about me I know who I am and How do I know who I am? Because every day I sit with him and talk about myself, check myself, see my strength, see my weaknesses. I have a weakness and the whole world is telling me oh you’re perfect, you’re perfect. I’m not to believe that. I have to check my weaknesses and change. I don’t have many and yet the world seems to be talking only about my weaknesses. I’m not to believe that also because I know where I was. I know where I’m heading and I know where I’ve reached and I know where I’m going because no one else knows me better than me. Why are we always dependent on what people have to say about us? That’s when- My self-respect becomes dependent on what people say about me and that’s when people don’t say nice things about me, I get hurt or when people don’t do nice things to me, I get hurt and I say- they disrespected me, they insulted me, they rejected me. Nobody can disrespect you. There’s only one person who can disrespect me. There’s no one who can reject me. Only one person- even if the whole world does not talk nicely to me if, I talk nicely to myself inside I’ll always be happy. I’m perfect in my way. Talking nicely to yourself even though everyone around you is not talking nicely to you and you will be happy because we need only one person myself to be nice to me. If everyone says to you- You’re very pretty and still, she says to herself no I don’t think I’m pretty. She can never be happy. So it's not about what people say to us, It's about what we say to ourselves after we hear what people say to us. So, we actually need only one person to be nice to us- Myself.
I go around asking the world to be nice to me and that’s a never-ending journey. It's not going to happen so I need only one person to love me myself and when I love myself I need no one to respect me, I need no one to be nice to me and I allow people to be the way they are but because I do not shift from my love and respect my vibrations will start healing then when someone throws their energy at us we can do three things with that energy.
So we are all reflectors, no absorbers, we’re all Transformers, and those who transform energy become World Transformers.
