So my dear readers here I come with a topic which is beautiful for some people and at the same time annoying for some people out their.

Marriage-A societal tradition where a girl and a boy get a licence to be not judged by the society when they are with each other.

I think I got the definition right😎

Yes I'm not married yet but there are many questions that blown up my head like-With a single signature 

Am I not be character assescinated by the society when I go out with a boy?

Will my parents be okey to send me with a stranger to a lonely room whom I just signed a paper?? 

Okey so the marriage has happened and I will not judged by the society and everyone will be alright when I will be with that boy.

Then what will happen,let's see-

Now my parents will pay a lot for giving me to a stranger.With loads of dowry I have to go to his house,I have to pretend that this is my house and the house which I was saying that this is my house for 24-25 years is now not my real house.

I have to call his parents “Mummy” and "Daddy"..Waaoo! I mean parent can only be one,it's irreplaceable.ow can I give that special place to someone else parent..

Now the worst thing is that for meeting my own parent who raised me up for so many years,I have to take permission from my in-laws who has done nothing for me till now.

If the relationship builds up and we both will be happy,than it's beautiful but if it doesn't work out than who will be blamed,me-the girl.

I'm not saying that in-laws are so bad or I'm against marriage propaganda but these questions always come on my mind and I just feel strange and sometimes somewhere unfair also.

To be honest I think giving their daughter to a stranger is a big sacrifice for the parents.They do it due to the societal rule,so everyone should respect it and understand it.In-laws should treat the girl like their daughter only if they are expecting the girl to treat them like her parent.Everything and everyone around a couple is responsible for their relationship.The couple should try their best to make their bond strong and value each others parents also.Everything should be equally expected and blamed.Mainly it is the husband who can make everything go perfect between the family if he kept balance between his parent and his wife.