When I look around me, I found that every one is running in their life just to fullfill their family needs and sustain them. In this race somewhere we forgot the real values of life…happiness, greetings, morality …honesty etc. We have changed the actual meaning of these terms based on our convenience. Not even in society but in families also we only try to maintain the bonds or relations  only if we get benefited from that person. 

When we appreciate others then everyone will be fine but if we have critisied that person or just shown our doubt than  surely we are going to be in trouble…slowly that person will make distance from us. 

I personally found that whatever we do for others ,if it is positive or beneficial for them they will welcome u but not always. Specially girls who actually leave their parents home just to be with that person who has shown his trust in her intially but not anymore. Now her actions are always be  questioned as if she is immature or she has no sense. But honestly we girls are very strong emotionally as well as physically. If we are not raising our voice it doesn't mean that we don't know how to be louder but we care about the relations so we absorb things rather than reacting on them.

Sometimes I really get worried plus confused when someone says that which is your home as when she is at her parents home than everyone says that u have to go to your husband home  and when she reached to her husband home than her in-laws consider her an outsider or u can say that it takes much more time to prove herself.

Girls believe in maintaining the relationships ,not in breaking them. If we accept something than we accept it with full heart and gives our hundred percent to fullfill it and sometimes if we don't like anything than nothing can change it.

So dear society before judging a girl atleast we should know about them, their compromises , their duties,  her commitments. We can  take care of our both responsibilities as a daughter as well as daughter in law. But yes sometimes we get little tired and we will be more happy if someone supports  us and make us realise our worth rather than complaining us. Life is actually very short to deal with negativity , so spread positivity and let everyone enjoy their life.