Hey everybody .We always wonder that how to become successful in our lives .Here success may have different meaning for different people. Some wants to be successful in exams ,for other it can be establishing their owners business or end up getting a good job any many moreβ¦β¦.
Before telling you the most important skills you must acquire before turning 30 ,I have a question for all of you .Do answer in comment box what you fell for the same .So my question to you is what are the qualities that you think you should learn in your teenage .Once you answered this question ,things can change my dear friends .How?????
There are 2 very active stages of our life where learning matters for the whole life.
1 is the early childhood that is upto age of 14 . Most of us are told to focus on studies in this phase because learning can make a huge difference.
2 is the adolescent and the adult age. AN age where even our hormones are not under control.
So what ever we learn in this age becomes a strong foundation for the upcoming future. Research had proved some on the skills that we all must learn before turning 30 .
β Coping with uncertainty: Yes you read it right. The first and foremost thing we all should learn is coping with uncertainty. The only certanity is the way you respond to uncertainty. Me being a child always had a vision that things I have today will stay with me forever. ME, My friend ,my family and all what I enjoy. But dear friends nothing stay forever. The friends I had in my childhood are no more with me ,the toys I loved are not mine now. Nothing is certain dear buddies . Nor even our parents our going to live with us forever. Hence it become very essential for each one of us to learn this trait.
β Communication but gracefull:
We all know how to communicate isn't it? We all being kids were taught to speak hence communicate but what does this graceful communication stand for? There are times when we come across the people with different mindset thats where clashes between the two starts. My dear friends we all have different shape,size ,color, and thought. Therefore respecting others for there unique prospect makes you better human hence a graceful person.
Talking to others without loosing ethics makes a graceful communication.
β Respecting diversity:
Accepting people the way they are is what makes a respectful person. An individual may have different languages ,religion, culture,caste etc. Still humanity comes first .So making your heart wide open for all the people of your country without discrimination makes you a good human.
β learn to say no:
Research have proved that 89% of Indians don't fell like seeking for a help. There are times when you want know the answer, so what ? Before turning 30 we all should learn to say no .no I don't know ,will you plz tell me what's the answer .all these sentences doesn't .make you low.
βBeing Reseliant: # being pationate.
We all should be tough for whatever comes our way .Start talking risks This life is all about experimenting thing's to get the shine out of you . All the startups are subjected to market risks but one has to take risk . No startup hits the mark for the first time .Yes you fail and yes you learn.
βSpending money and time carefully:
Being in teenage we all love parties ,chilling with friends, hangouts ,and what not .But once you realize the importance of time you can achieve a luxury life..Early start makes you a fast achiever. My dear friends time waits for nobody. I don't say don't enjoy , its all about your investment of time .Money and time are the most important aspect for being nice.
β learning to cook:
Cooking is not something for women or men .cooking is a trait that every individual should learn. Once you know how to cook makes you self reliant .You are no more dependent on anyone for your meal .food is the need of every one .Its more of creativity, fun and enthusiastic . Therefore we all must learn this before turning 30.
Here are all the skills that an individual must
if learn before turning 30. If you like this blog then do let me know in the chatbox .Your every comment means a lot to me .Thanks.