My title is the first question to you. People tend to think that in a relationship losing the person you love is worse than anything. But my answer to this question is no.

Why? Because after a breakup in a relationship our surroundings become unacceptable . We don't find things as usual . We hate what we loved . Correct? Even if we have a thousand reasons to blame the other person, yet, we would bring another ten thousand reasons to punish ourselves. It's normal.

Coming to the answer , in a relationship you should always not forget to think about yourself once  because, if the relationship  ends and if you are the one who finds it hard to move on , you will stop loving yourself . People usually do this and lose themselves after that relationship and it would take a large amount of time to regain that confidence then.

That does not mean that you ignore the memories and the person you lost but , it does not even mean that you start ignoring yourself. 

So, love yourself more than anything in a relationship but not be selfish. It is worse to find the "person" you lost in a relationship but it's worse to find “you” that you lost in a relationship.

Apparently, if you lost yourself then you lose everything. All the other things are connected with us . 

Some mistakes people do after breaking up in a relationship 

1). Blaming themselves for nothing:

If you are not the person to break off the relationship with a silly excuse , you should not feel guilty of entering in a relationship.

2). Remembering same things:

This is the next worst thing people do after breaking up . It would simply be a hinderence for you to move on from past . Memories are supposed to be with us forever but that does not mean we stick on them . Try to think of something else in that moment.

3). Losing confidence and not believing in yourself:

Losing confidence would be a big problem because the result of each activity performed by you depends on the level of confidence you do it with. So be confident and don't think you are less than anything.

Secondly belive in what you do. Never try to underestimate your calibre . You can do what you can , there is no “if” or “but” when you really believe in yourself.

4). Repeat the same story to others:

Speaking of the thing once or twice to the person who can help you fix your confidence is ok. But , if you keep on talking about it continuously it will start bothering you even more. Discussing about it for once or twice is normal and would still help you make things clear.

5). Trying to get that person back:

50% of the people do this mistake and keep on losing hope as they try to bring that person back in their life. But one should always remember , there is no point of relation if it is created by force , as it would not last long