Yes, it's true sometimes we missing someone and that particular person doesn't even know, still we missing them. This is useless for sure . We really enjoy remembering all those things that we talked about with them and keep thinking about those memories. It's become very difficult to comeback from that memory lane. We sometimes try to recall them “hey there i am alive can we talk?” but our ego resist us to “ No don't do that are you insane??”
So really what to do? Remind them that you are missing them or just keep thinking about those people and waste your time. I tried many times to stop myself to ping them and tried my luck .Guess what happened?? They didn't even care to explain that situation that made us awkward because they have moved on and i am the only one who stuck there. From that part i got to learn that there is no such one sided thing, we have to be clear about our feelings and if you really feel from the very first moment that you are the one sided person so just try to make things very clear at least for your own good.
Because dude earth is round and your karma's account is managing by GOD so be clear about your things and if you don't want to be there so just say and leave that place. We have no right to hurt anyone just for our things. love is love there is no place for hate and cheating.
I want to say something for those who are really scared to know that what will happen if they say what you really don't expect. So guys be clear about these things because it's really hurt if you get to know after enough time ,you will not be able to understand that situation.
life is full of surprises , we can't stuck at one place there you can't get the real you. leave that place where you have to just pretend that you are so happy with them and whatever they do you are ok with it. It will not work in a long run. If you get that confidence and ask them about that and you have to leave that place so just do it maybe your destiny wants that.
last one- ‘’REMEMBER WE CAN'T CHANGE OUR DESTINY BUT WE CAN CHANGE OUR ACTIONS''