Hi, hope all of you are doing great if not then at least try.

Yeah it's true at some point of time we start judging ourselves , despite we need ourselves more. Some really useless thought pop up in our mind like am i doing enough to get that thing?? am i capable of that position? am i able to control that situation?? of course these thoughts are useless still we allow our mind to think that again again after some time its become ritual . We are not consistent about anything but yes we can burn our hours in thinking about those am i enough thoughts.

The blunder thing when happen when somebody tells us that you are not doing good enough to grab that position so try something else and i am talking about those somebody who doesn't even know that field but they have tendency to give their advice anyhow. Still we agree with them and allow our mind think like that and from now our mind keep saying on repeat mode “yes dude you are good enough".

We can't run from that situation but we can do something for sure. Because i am suffering from this good enough thought , that's why i am talking about . Some says you are lazy type person this field is not yours, some says try something else maybe this is not in your destiny, some says competition has increased try harder otherwise quit , some says you tried enough times now quit, really?? Who are they to decide my destiny, how i am lazy or super active, and my quit timings. They are no one seriously if we really think for sometime they are trying to become great advice giver nothing else , they have no interest in your things.

So what can we can do to solve this irritating situation ,practically think so we can't stop them to talk about anything but we can control our minds to what should we think or what we don'y have to. Yes we have such power controlling power . WE can't judge our potentials , yes we can analysis it but can't judging . Judging is totally a different thing. 

Life is already little mess and these negative thoughts increase our stress . From these thoughts we can't give our hundred percent in anything because we always judge ourselves. So don't do that try your best maybe will fail but try again and again. Don't give power to anyone else to decide you destiny or quit timings. You know yourself better .   

Remember- " Everybody has different talent ,we can't judge anyone.''