From a toddler to a grownup, we have given or attended a lot of exams & we thought that the exams we are giving are the hardest, but somehow we got over with it. Never knew that there would be an unending exam coming up, where no teacher gonna help you to get over with it, but only you can get yourself over. For some people, Career is a interesting topic of conversation because they are very clear about the future what they are gonna do in their life, but for some it's the most terrorizing thing to think about. And the relatives play a very important role in this by more worsening the situation. “Well people usually kick you when you are low”. They are gonna constantly ask you about your future plans, when they are also aware that you have none. It feels like a bee constantly stinging you until you give up!!
Well, it was a true saying that humans are more dangerous than a venomous snake, and we humans do everything to prove it.
Well, I think “Career” is the most important thing to discuss about where one mistake can make your life hell!! So, people like me, who haven't think about a single thing about “career” while growing up & was just living life without any worry, Welcome! you soon gonna need a shrink for help!!
When you are just a kid, world does revolve around you. From enjoying & going out with friends and family without any worry to sleepless nights, panicking, anxiety, stress, failures and what not. Yes!! We have all kinda grew up like this. And the top of that the most annoying & irritating question everybody starts to ask is ‘What are you gonna do after this? ’, 'What's the plan for the future? ', What's after this? ‘……which makes any individual’s mind question their own selves.
Everybody has a different definitions or opinions to describe ‘ career’. But very few have a clear path to their destination. Sometimes it feels like we don't know ourselves at all like, what we actually like?, what makes us happy?, what makes us feel more alive?, etc etc.... & the world doesn't stop until they prove that you are a crazy person. But have we ever felt that bad when we were in school, no!!! It all started when we entered to college, life took a drastic turn. A different world came into existence all of sudden, which we hardly heard of & now we are living in it. Some people are so enthusiastic that makes us feel like, are we really alive? And some are like creator or destroyer of the universe, soo confident. Yeah, now I am not gonna describe each and every kind to you guys. But it does indicates that we have been living in a completely different world, where thank God we didn't get to meet such people otherwise God knows what would have happened to our childhood. And sometimes it seems like, are we really getting fit into this environment? Where everything seems so unknown, strange. So we basically try to modify so many things, becoming someone who we are not. After dealing so many sh**s at a time, we kind a leaving our true reason to be there. Well, yeah it's very difficult to focus on one thing when you have so many in your basket.
At last “Career” is something according to me that we enjoy to do the most, that things we are actually good at & can able to monetize it. And to those who haven't discovered about future or career, don't worry you'll soon find one just believe in yourselves. And don't stop until you find your true self. Till then, keep finding and keep exploring!!!
