Hey all…
So now let's have a talk on toxic relationships and how it differs from a healthy relationship.
First of all,what is a toxic relationship?we all are aware of a toxic thing ,that it is nothing but which has the power to destroy the life or which causes major damage to the life.well,,just think if the toxicity is reflecting too in your relationship 🙄 no doubt…it is definitely going to destroy your inner peace,and if the inner peace is in peices …its the destruction of your soul.
Let me ask one thing….what if we feels when we are exhausted by something?? We tend to give up.. right??? But why most of us don't accept the point of giving up when it is happening in a relationship? obviously the answer would be ‘i never want to lose him/her’. Have you ever used your commonsense just to understand that the person whom you doesn't want to lose have never been bothered of losing you? (I mean if you are in a toxic relationship).
No one is perfect and there are no ideal relationships. But can't we make it Ideal?? Of course,we can . A perfect relationship doesn't always need surprising each others,hanging out for a movie or a candle light dinner etc etc. These may be part of expressing your emotions and your feelings to your partner…but besides these things,more than everything mutual understanding should rank first. Arguments,fights and all are common in every relations and both the partners have their own spaces but a healthy relationship should have a strong determination of never giving up on each other,no Matter how worst the condition is .
But when one partner is dominating in a relationship…I would call it as a true toxic relationship and one is definitely being' taken for granted' for no reason. It is not at all fair when only one is there to compromise all the time. I believe that there is no commitments in such relations and your partner is not at all invested in you. They would never change.. because they clearly knows that we would never leave them…no matter how badly they treat us. But ..is this a good thing?? Do you think that these relationships would be going on a smooth track? Cent percent sure that it would end up in a big bang.
A healthy relationship should not be one person's monopoly. Both of the partners have equal rights to do their part. And if one could accept his/her partner for whom they are…life would be more beautiful.😻
So, if you are in a toxic relationship, never spent a second sleeping on it to repair,just use your loaf and happily say goodbye before getting intoxicated. Never stay where you are not valued. Never let your brightness to fade away. Start exploring yourself and start loving the pretty'you' , regain your inner peace …. and watch how blissful your days are going ❤️❤️.