Hello everyone, Today I am going to share my personal experience to you all.

There were days I believed that new relations or bonds in our life bring all the existing bonds and relations closer and closer to us. But the reality is just upside down.

My personal experience:

I had a childhood friend. It just breaks my heart to say “I had” :( 

She was a major part of my life, without her my life looks empty. We were so close and we were like sisters who used to share everything and support each other in all situations. But when she fell into a relationship everything changed:(

At first those we very small changes which actually hurt me but I had a feeling it won't change anything between us. But eventually, everything started changing. So we stopped talking for a few days and the silence grew. 

Later she got new friends too and started ignoring me and stopped spending time with me, which made me super sad but I was happy that she is happy. 

later a problem arose because of her relationship then she just flipped and lied about me to their parents to save her love life and her new friendships. Now as a result her parents just hate me and I am the bad character in the whole story. It's not just the one friendship that she broke with her lies to save herself. It is also the beautiful friendship my mom and her mom had.

The reason behind sharing this highly personal incident is every bond and relationship lives only on the truss bridge, when you break it for your selfishness it not only breaks the bond but also the trust you build these many years. You have to think about the effects of each action you perform before doing it and the collateral damage has to be taken into consideration.

In my case because of her selfishness, the two families' friendship for more than 20+ years is spoiled and I am left alone with all the bad names just for being her friend.

One thing that hurt me the most is she saved her every new friend but just stabbed me and told me you were very close to me so you have to take all these blame and vanished…I am not even worried about the blames and bad names that I got, but she did this all to hurts more.

I am sorry for sharing this kinda stuff here but now I have no one to share my feelings too:(

BYE BYE!