I am writing this Blog that you can not be good in every person story/you can not make everyone happy because so far in life I have had realize it so many times.

Some people in your life is always gonna have problems with your living style, your actions, your thoughts and your decision. I am not saying everyone is like that but yes, I am pretty much sure every individual have few people either in their past or present who had hated  them for their personality, action or some other reasons. I have had too some people  who do not like me(even hated me) for who I am or become. 

Well, the truth is that life is kept changing and it is very essential thing to maintain an healthy and meaningful life with time of course you gonna grow from inside and will learn from your mistakes and in that process some people gonna stay with you, some gonna leave you and sometimes you have to leave some people for betterment of yourself and your life. 

Well let's shift to the actual question, why you can not be good in every one story and why it's a universal truth. The answer is everybody is unique and everyone living style , thought process and life path is different. And if somebody is unhappy and they balm you for their problems, well this is not because of you, this is because of their thoughts and mentality. LETS be realistic nobody is GOD to destroy some one life daaaaa……… 

So, it's not necessary that what we want from our life is liked or loves by other people specially who are within in our life.  let's take an example of our parents or our siblings,  we fight with them and love them  but  some point and some situation their will be discriminations  and  they will never agree with you and they will make some statements which will probably will hurts you the most.

The point is if you can not make your family member happy  at certain point then who else you can make happy???? And this is also truth that they gonna love you at the end because you are in their blood relation but this is not happen with other people outside your family. To people who become your friends or your special part of life, well when you don't act according to them they definitely will give you a shit on your face which you have never imagined(again not all outsides). And trust me these  people are mostly self center because their thoughts are limited and they have this fantasy world around them thinking about things which actually far away from reality. I am 100% sure everybody encounter some people in their life those have makes their life difficult because they can not stand  the other  person personality. 

Do you think you need to give answerer to  do those people who gives you shit and think bad about? Is 'it that important to do that…..Well A BIG NO… 

You don't have to correct or try to make your image better in somebody eyes as you can not change others… you can not make  everyone happy… Some people will be happy to you, some will enjoy your company, some people will hate you for who you are, some will leave you for that and of course if you leave some one for you happiness  and betterment (which is against their will) will give you big shit….because my friends people will like you until unless you  fit into their farm.

I have also encounter a lot of people in  my life like  friend ,family and some people whom I even  don't know saying bad and mean things to me even portraying me like I am or was evil person. And the funny  thing is that who humilities you the most are those person with whom you have trusted the most. AND ye sach h ki talwar se jyda word katate h.

So what you should do with these people. First Ignore them, Because  people will say what they have to say….. best think is not to give answer and insisted of giving answerer and correcting someone utilize that energy  to betterment of your life. Second, Forgive and Forget…keep what was good and forgive to move on to your life as you can not be good in everyone story. Third, throw these people completely out of your life who try to push your legs intensely or not intensely and make your life negative….it's  very important for a happier  and successful life to surrounded by positive and accepting people those gives your life a sense of freedom. And stay away from negative ones because these people destroy your life like a cancer.

STAY SAFE AND HAPPY

Thank  you for reading my blog.

Moni