We live in a competitive and winning-obsessed society. People from the 20th century, on the other hand, are firmly in favour of possession. Some people believe they own their children. They don't see their children going down the route they want them to go down. Some people believe that children should be responsible for their own well-being from a young age. Childhood, in my opinion, is the most important stage in a child's development. Visions occur in children. Example, if a child saying he wants to be a police officer  his parents must respect  his desire. Allow him to do what he can, despite his small stature. He may have preferences in terms of clothing, books, and even his way of life. He might be talk like walk like a police officer. At the times parents has to appreciate his effort. Maybe he would change his decision, lifestyle everything when he grew up. But let it be with him. I believe  a parent has to respect their children life and never compare it with other children. It is your responsibility to provide them the insight and space to meet their expectations, not yours. 

Kids themselves never decided to bourn. As a parents you decided to give birth to them. You have your rights, duties, responsible works. And as an indian parent everyone have to realise getting a degree from mbbs , engineering is not the highest reputation in society. Being a guide and promote their dreams. No one in the world can influence a children more than their own parents. Being happiness should be the first goal of education. Being healthy, and being kind is also add with happiness. If a kid learn these 3 features in their chilhood, that kid would never made themself down in their future life. Ofcourse education is mandatory, but which path should they choose is completely depend on them.

Everyone is individual. No one can decide someone's future. Parents changing their kids career because of the competition in society is really very shameful and ridiculous thing. Whatever we do, whatever we wear, whoever we talk, whenever we go, what matters is the satisfaction of the person who Include in it. Giving pressure to kids is really an offense. Not every parents has the aware about their children's current life. All they obsessed about future. But there is no future without today. Let the kid be themself. Be their guide, not their owner.