Insecurities, a word that has lived with us since the time we were born and would no doubt live with us till we die. What are insecurities you may ask. They can be anything from “ I don't have the same notebook to show off in school” to “I am fat”. Insecurities can be anything that a person things might hamper his/her growth in a particular area. There is so much to learn and observe, so much to give and get but these insecurities have led a lot of people not try or have turned down those opportunities because they felt that they are not as good as the other person.
I an no different than any one of you self doubt is my biggest insecurity. And when I say all of you trust me I know that we all have been here once in our life, or everyday of our life. How do we develop these insecurities you might say. Well the very moment we let others appearance, their words, their opinion about us decide what we are and what our worth n this world that is when these insecurities develop within us.
Like I said I am no different, I have my own insecurities too. At many occasions I have had these thoughts that I cannot do a particular task because I am less, I am weak, I am not intelligent, I am not attractive, I am not fair. Well to b honest, not all of them our my insecurities, I just wanted to give some examples;) Most of the times, i do feel less let me be honest. I roam around with a group of people or the population that i am currently getting degree with, they all come from varied backgrounds, they all have different qualities that make them who they are, and so is the case with me. But I don't know why, I always question myself, I doubt myself. I for some time think its quite natural to think so. Me as a person, I am quite shy when it comes to new people so I take time to get comfortable with the environment, the people around me let along the time I require to console myself, and assure myself that I can do it.
Thankfully I am blessed with the most strong and enthusiastic parents. They have always had a different kind of trust in me. Moat of the time, I fall short of the confidence that my parents have on me. That know it for sure that whatever I planned for myself in the near future is something that I definitely am going to achieve. This is, my parents are my source of confidence to kill my insecurities. I hope you all also have your source of your confidence and kill those insecurities and open the door for every opportunity that comes.
Thankyou🌸