Hey guys, I am new to Candlemonk and have been pondering on where to start. However, I thought to start with my personal story and go along.

I am a newly married lady and I married my best friend. Best thing know! Yeah! I married my best friend who has been with me for 18 long years. But, today I am not going to boast about him or our love story. Today I am gonna share some of the things that I have learnt in life which might be motivating for you people as well. Especially in this pandemic situation there should be something to hold us up together. 

Believe. 

Believe whatever that happens in your life has a reason, probably some good reason. In our life we may have too many questions to ask God for which we won't be getting any response from that Man. Some questions are unanswered and it is better that way. Yep! That's pretty much it, because one day we shall find the answer by ourselves (or convince ourselves with an answer). I lost my father when I was 4. I was very much attached to him as you all would have heard about Electra Complex. I didn't get any proper answer for my loss. Though I was very close to him, I don't have a single proper memory of him in my mind now.  I loved him so much that his loss affected me emotionally and still fighting to get out of it. 

After all these years, when I look back, I figured out that If I had the remembrance of all those memories that I have created  with him, I would have shattered to pieces unable to bare the pain. Hence, I now started thanking God for erasing my memories with my dad. Also, if I hadn't lost him, I wouldn't have got such an amazing dad as my husband now. I see a lot of qualities similar to my dad in him and I feel grateful for that. I also feel that I have become more aware of the men around me and was searching for the one who resembles my dad in atleast one characteristic. Nevertheless, I found someone who almost equals 90% of him and the fun part is I never expected that he has been with me for years. LOL. I was searching for a gem which was in my hand.

So, believe that whatever happens in your life, it may have some good reason in it. We may not understand it at once but I assure you that you shall find out the reason one day in your life. 

Believe…