Nowadays shyness is like a disorder, If you get out of this disease in time, it is okay, otherwise you will have to suffer a lot later. It's all starts with our childhood.

The kids look cool, naughty, but some are shy by nature, who neither mix much with other children's, neither talk to elders nor like to play with children's or outdoor games. Just quietly, living in own world with a gum, if someone talks, child shakes his head, or gives a limited answer. Looks like by seeing them, they have lost there childhood.

Many times parents and teachers do not pay much attention to such child's. They feel that the child is very decent, will grow up on his own and will be fine. Most parents and teachers have wrong thinking. 

Causes of a shy child: 

Genetically

Sometimes the reason for the shyness of the child is also hereditary because the parents too are of shy nature. If they interact less than other people, then it is natural that the child will also be shy, he will also reduce the interaction. 

The personality

Sometimes the personality of children is highly sensitive. They cannot say their words openly to anyone. They assumes in their mind that - I am hesitant in my mind not to get scolded or not. In such a situation, his nature is shy.

There role model

Children have their own role models in childhood. They want to emulate them in every way. Especially want to bring down the style of speaking in their life. In such a situation, their parents may be their role models and if they are shy, then the children also imitate the same way, because they see their parents speaking less, seeing less similar then they too become a habit.   

Lack Interaction

The lack of interaction with the society also causes their shyness. Sometimes children who live alone under any circumstance in baptism, do not have the habit of talking more than others and such children in society do not mix easily. This habit further makes them shy.

Symptoms of shy children:

• Shy children do not like to go to social gathering.    
• Do not make new friends easily.  
• Their scope is very limited. 
• Afraid to participate in the competition at the school level.   
• Do not sit with the guests who come to the house, nor eat and drink with them.   
• Likes to sit in a room alone while still at home.  
• Likes to eat alone. 
• Talks less with others.

Problems of shy children:  

• Even after being talented, such children are not able to take full advantage of it. 
• Can not take their talent, skills forward as a career.  
• There is also an impact on studies. If something is not understood, such children are unable to tell their problem to the teacher. 
• Nor are shy children able to do group study.
• Do not like to play outdoor games. It is good to watch TV, play games on mobile, stay at home, which stops their physical and mental development.
• They can't share openly there emotions.
• They lost in there own imagination world which may will conduct a big problem.

In such a situation, How parents can take responsibility? Follow these steps:

•  For parents, in this case for the child do not give any title, nor when introducing someone, say that it is very shy, otherwise the child will not be able to get himself out of the shy nature.  
• If the child is shy outside, do not scold him for his shyness. Go and explain it with love and give him support.  
• Talk to the child about why you are shy or afraid.  
  Identify those areas of the child and help them get out of it.  
• Tell the child an anecdote when you have taken any damage due to shy nature at school or college level.  
• Take the child to social gathering. Introduce more and more people. Come home and praise his good behavior.  
• Motivate the child's talent. Don't make fun of him  If something goes wrong, correct it with love. If you do this, the result will be better. 
• Do not impose your will on the child in childhood. 
• Often we make the mistake that when a guest comes and the child is small, he insists on reciting poetry, dancing and showing it.  Sometimes the child is not in mood. In such a situation, do not force it on him, do not do evil to him.

Always try to behave nice with your children your child is your photocopy never forget it.