THE TITLE ITSELF DESCRIBES WHAT WE COMPARE AND WHY WE ARE DOING COMPARISON .
THE WORD COMPARISON IS ITSELF A VERY SELFISH WORD WHICH WE GENERALLY USE IN OUR DAILY LIVES.
ONE QUOTE CAME IN MY MIND IS THAT "DONT COMPARE YOURSELF WITH ANYONE ". BUT SOCIETY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS THAT THERE IS NO COMPARISON BETWEEN A "GIRL" AND A "BOY"..
SO NOW MY READERS QUITELY AWARE AND UNDERSTAND THE TITLE "WHY WE STILL COMPARE"....
YES IN THIS DIGITAL WORLD PEOPLE STILL WANT THEIR DAUGHTER TO REMAIN IN THEIR LIMITS . ITS NOT BECAUSE PARENTS DON'T WANT THEIR DAUGHTER TO LIVE THE LIFE SHE WANTS BUT BECAUSE OF SOCIETY THEY STOP HER , THE FEAR OF PEOPLE STOPS THEM , THE FAKE NEWS RELATED TO GIRLS, THE HORRIFIED NEWS OF RAPE , FEAR , FEAR , FEAR AND JUST FEAR IS ALWAYS GOES ON PARENTS MIND..
WHEREAS IF WE TALK ABOUT BOYS THE PARENTS JUST FEEL FREE ...NO WORRIES , NO TENSION THEY FEEL SO RELAXED ABOUT BOYS .. I DON'T MEAN PARENTS DON'T BOTHER ABOUT THEIR BOYS CHILD THEY DO CARE FOR THEM BUT STILL THEIR IS LOT MORE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THEIR UPBRINGING .....
YES I DO BELIEVE THAT THEIR IS STILL SO MUCH COMPARISON BETWEEN A BOY AND A GIRL ....
WHY CAN'T THIS COMAPRISON BE STOPPED WHY WE WANT OUR DAUGHTER TO BE QUIET AND CALM ALL THE TIME , WHY SHE HAS TO BE STOPPED ALL THE TIME , WHY CAN'T SHE RAOM FREELY, WHY SHE HAS TO CARE FOR ALL THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM..
"SHARAM , IZZAT , HAYA, LAAJ " ALL THESE WORDS ARE JUST MEANT FOR GIRLS ... WHY BOYS DON'T FOLLOW THESE NORMS ..." HA BHAI SARA THEKA TOH LADKIYO NE LE RAKHA HAI SAB CHEEZO KA "
HERE I AM NOT TALKING TO EVERYONE BUT STILL THERE ARE 90 PERCENT PEOPLE MENTALITY ABOUT THEIR DAUGHTER ARE JUST LIKE THIS ....
ITS NOT BECAUSE THEY HATE THEIR DAUGHTER BUT THEY ARE TOO MUCH PROTECTIVE WHEN THE TALKING COMES REGARDING "DAUGHTER"....
TRY TO MAKE THE UPBRINGING OF BOTH THEIR DAUGHTER AND BOYS ARE EQUAL SO THAT THE SENTENCE"WHY WE STILL COMPARE" CAN BE ERASED FROM PEOPLE MIND...
IF I TALK ABOUT MYSELF YES MY PARENTS ALSO HAVE FEAR OF MANY THINGS WHEN IT COMES TO ME ..... YES THEIR IS LOT MORE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MY UPBRINGING AND MY BROTHER'S .. I AM NOT GETTING JEALOUS OF SAYING LIKE THIS ....
I JUST WANT FROM SOCIETY PLEASE DO NOT MAKE COMPARISON... MAKE THIS SOCIETY LIKE THIS THAT THIS COMPARISON CAN BE REMOVED EASILY ....
I WRITE WHAT I THINK .....
