When we don't what someone is going through , when we don't have same emotion for a particular thing how can we tell them that they are overreacting. Let me tell you all a brief personal story , When I was in 9th grade my best friend cried because someone broke her 2 rupees pen ๐๏ธ , even I thought it's childish nature of her to cry on that one pen ๐๏ธ , so I started to lecture her after 5 mins , she started crying again and said to me ," You don't know how important this pen ๐๏ธ is to me โ , I said in anger โSo say me how important is it to youโ she said , โIt was the last pen my grandfather gave to me before his death ' โฆ. I literally became speechless on it but on that day I made a promise to myself whenever I want to tell someone that you are wrong, before telling them that , I would always listen and try to understand their side .
People judge others because it is easy . Understanding others is really what it takes our gut.
But I don't see any point in judging others I mean why should any one do that , even if you know the whole case you still cannot get their emotional frequency.
It's ๐ฏ and one percent true that cold hearted people were not always cold hearted , their situation made them . Their is always a side story in a person's life which no one knows because the person doesn't tell, take it me or you or any third person because at times we don't have words to explain our feelings or maybe there is no one on other side who can understand this kind of feeling.
We you know that what a person is going through you would
Definately be kind because being in someone's shoes ๐ is really a different thing that seeing them wearing that shoes.
So before judging anyone in life just think that would you like to be judged? In first place why should we judge others , I mean who gave right to you or anyone for judging anyone.
The God has made every one the way they exactly need to be , so it you judge others next time or find others judging other just tell them at ' They are questioning and making fun of god's creation' . Stop Judging others because it may or may not affect the others but it would definitely show your character plus we all know the thing called karma , what you give or treat to others , it returns back to you in one way or another.
So let's be kind to each other, if you cannot think positive for a person no problem just do not speak bad about them. Let's make the world a better place to live where we are not judged by the eyes of the society rather we are appreciated for what we are.!