Reading the title every one would have got the idea on which topic we are going to talk on.

Every one of us in today's world live a life of others expectation or we let others take the decision of our life .  I don't understand why we live like this or why we have to live like other's want us too ?

We have our own interest , our own brain , then why to let someone else use their brain in deciding our life .

Yaa, we must take advice from others but that does not mean we have to follow each and every thing what they are telling to us. Taking advice is just a way for us to look at a situation in which we have not seen , it has never meant nor it will ever mean to let go our goal or desire just because some one else think that it is worst decision or it won't work out in future.

I know at times when we don't listen to others and we fail , but we should not be sad that ohh! God I should I have listened to them. But here , we are wrong , we must tell our self- 'okay ! We got something wrong here, let's start again . This time I atleast have some experience in it. ' So by this atleast we won't have a any regrets in our life. As there is saying,  “ Time heals everything,  but  regrets take much time to heal ”

No matter what will do, we cannot make everyone happy at the same time. No Matter how much we care for others and follow them , at end if we will fail , they will tell that we don't have our brains , or it's  our mistake but incase we got successful they would be the first one to take the credits. 

    So let's not take worry about what other's think about us. Because at end we would regret what we keep in our heart , and that is what would act as the biggest curse of a man kind. Because we all must live the life what our heart says as God has given every one different heart,  brain and different emotions for every other things. So ,  we all must do what we are sent here to do , we all are here for different purpose and we all have different paths and different difficulties,  no One can replace us , if they would we won't be alive, there would be no purposeful life of us . So let's live our life on own own terms and complete our life purpose.