Have you been a elder girl in a desi Indian family??? Believe me I can feel your pain.. It's not easy to be in too much heat , right!!! And to be an elder girl in a big family is similar to that.

You have to be a daughter , sister , mother sometimes even a granny all of them in a moment. A big whole yes!!! that girls do have all these characters within them by nature. But as an elder girl with a good number of sisters ,you are under surveillance for your life.

Do you know why??? You have to be an ideal girl ,so that your sisters can learn good things from you. Most of the parents believe that life of young ones depend on the elders ones.

If the elder ones live as similar as all the people do, according to the society and fit in the era of flock of sheep, then the young one will follow them and again fit in like others did.

There is no way breaking the chain. You have to be a sheep that doesn't look back or think different among your family crew. You can't !!!!

You guys may think people today are doing great things and breaking the stereotypes and elevating in life. There is a saying that ,you may face a situation where you have to ask for what you need. And at the end you may get it or you may come to know how it can impact your life.

So the achievers are no one who asked for what that need may be stand for what they want. No ones life is depend on no ones action or doing. People fail , so If my decision gone wrong some-where it gonna affect me not my sisters .

Apart from all the illusions around the nation, to be an elder you are in a position to be loved immensely. My siblings treat like an angle when I buy them what they asked for or a genius when I clear their doubts or a mother when I feed them or a fighter when they tore me apart.

You can't break any chain because your sisters may get it wrong that getting what-ever they what is right!!!

Let us be happy with the family we are blessed and live according to your dream and career.

              "NO ONES ACTIONS GONNA AFFECT NO ONES LIFE"