Every love story in cinemas has a tragedy or pain in it. It is misperceived by the young minds that 'more the pain, more the love'. It may happen in reality but I'm not sure whether it's a healthy choice one can make in life. What's true love then? Which choice is best that we can make in our life?
Defining the word ‘love’ is the tough thing many authors face. I have just made it simple according to my perception. “Love is the feeling of joy, that you admire within yourself during their presence (may not be physical) in your life”. But remember never ever get passionate about this feeling, just keep on admiring even in their absence.
The word love is an index to the words “UNDERSTANDING (+) RESPECT”. In absence of any of these two, It's not possible for a relationship to last happily forever. This rule applies to every healthy relationship. Understanding comes when you feel the mind of your partner even when they hesitate to talk. I know without communication it's not that easy at the first but you can encourage them to share their emotions freely. Respect for our imperfections is the one thing everybody in this world desires for. Everyone will appreciate the perfect side of you but only few people treat you the same even after noticing your imperfections (Those are the ones who stay in your heart by gaining trust of yours). It doesn't mean that you shouldn't guide them when they head in the wrong direction. Your advise helps them to mould their imperfections.
The concept of “let's grow together” has to persist. The beauty of the relationship only stays when exploring of each other intrests doesn't stop.
“There is never a problem between us, it's always problem versus us”.It's not so simple for two grown up people to have similar decisions, arguements happen for sure because two brains are never made same. At the end both should keep in mind to solve the issue as a team. Teamwork is always effective :).
True love is always healthy and it also spreads happiness to everyone around."Happy relations, happy society". So my dear readers wait for this sought of love because you deserve it.
To sum up everything :
“Love is not about Pain! Love is all about Gain!! Love is not about Complexity! Love is all about Flexibility!!”
Keep smiling and stay happy :)