Each and every person in this world is quietly not content with the quality of their life. There are ups and downs though and in each case everybody just wants to avoid the lows. But those lows are actually some important life lessons. And if one learns from them than life somehow becomes easy and bearable.
As a kid life is sorted, if you want something then you can just ask for it or maybe cry. Each and every person in the family will do everything possible to calm you down and you will be given anything you want. But as the child gradually grows up it is taught to learn 'No' as an answer. And it is important because one can not get everything it wants just by crying. To achieve something a lots of patience and hard work is required. And at times somethings are not meant for us no matter how hard we try. In the end we have to learn to let go.
Some important lessons that I have learned from life are- 1) Never trust anyone right away. Try to understand that even when it comes to God he tests his devotees, he tests their trust in him. So when even God is being cautious then why not you. People now a days are extremely talented in lying or in messing up others lives. And the first step of doing this is gaining the trust. Never disclose you family's situation to someone else. And also if somebody trusts you then try to be loyal to them. Believe in karma. It really exists.
2)Save Money: This habit has be to adopted by everyone. Times may change anytime. And trust me money is the only thing that will keep you going. At least you won't have to beg someone for money and truth be told nobody helps you in time of need. At times not even parents. And even if someone helps you then I am sure they will make you feel indebted to them. Take favors only when you can reciprocate them.
3) Don't let your ego win: Everybody uses social media now a days. And there are specific pages of quotes and everything where people tell you that how you should let go off the people those who doesn't understand your value. But at times think even if you can be that toxic person. You can't be right all the times. Nobody is that perfect. Relationships need mutual understanding. There is no winning and no losing.
These are few points that taught me how to make my life simple, if you resonate with them and want more then please do let me know in the comments, I will write a part 2 to it.