Family tension makes children grow up before their age, when they grow up they do not express their wishes

The family members left both of them. The relationship between the separated Priya's parents also gradually deteriorated. Fights in the house, then fights started. Everyday fights and beatings made Priya mature before her age. She became more serious than other children of her age. His childhood is over. She started thinking like an adult.

This is not right, says Sana Ahsan of the University of Hertfordshire, who researches the impact of stress on children in Indian families. It makes children mentally ill. Growing up, they become victims of borderline personality disorder. They develop a personality that

Can't give importance to They grow up to be victims of violence and exploitation in their relationships, whether they are friends, colleagues or spouses. The children of such families inculcate in their mind that there is no one to help them. Even he has to bear the responsibility of the family. Be it domestic work, relations with neighbors-relatives or

Adults whose childhood was spent in a stressful family environment. They are better than others in a profession that requires a lot of sensitivity. Such people are sensitive as well as very caring and problem-solving. Like parenting coaches, therapists, doctors, nurses, teachers do this better in professions.

Then take care of your younger siblings. They try to take care of their parents to keep the family environment right. Despite this, he starts feeling himself guilty for the increasing fights and quarrels in the family. Priya says, she used to know who needs what when. It was as if the emotional radar had been set in the mind. Priya is not alone like this. Meera, Anahata, Sadhaka ignore the needs.

It is almost the same story. In fact, in those families of India where there is an atmosphere of constant tension between the parents. Children try to fill that gap unintentionally and if they are not able to do so, they start blaming themselves. In such an environment, they are not able to tell their problems or needs to anyone. If told, there is an atmosphere of despair and anger. This makes them feel scared and feel embarrassed. Pediatrician and psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott has given the term 'false self' for this. 

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