It is true that in the modern world, women tend to be more dominant. We have it all but most of our precious qualities are hidden within and obscured by external influences. Shakuntali Siberia, Enlightened Woman, Psychiatrist, founder of the International Academy of Consciousness with the unconscious "Gyud", tells us how we develop the confidence and strength that lies within each woman.

Self-confident person - who is that? Someone who knows exactly what he needs to be happy and relaxed enough to accomplish that. Therefore, she is relaxed and happy. We are all born with a lot of confidence, freedom and knowing that we can control this world. But the pressure we face just to get here has taken away our confidence. It can be due to the facts and normalities of our lives or sometimes even to our parents - it doesn't matter. Still, the consequences are disastrous.

I was born with an understanding of who I am and what I should do in this life. I was well aware that predestination and the benefit of other people were cooling off, so I tried to treat and convince people to change their lifestyle. Imagine for a second I was a nine-year-old girl trying to explain to my mom that she was in a pre-cancerous state and that she needed to make immediate changes in her life to avoid the disease. It's very funny, of course. But that's what I really knew about them, so I tried to help them with all my heart. And they see me as a stupid girl who watches a lot of plays. Eventually, they became angry and finally concluded that I was crazy. All of this does not boost self-confidence, does it?

Restoring your confidence back.

The only way to get back to nature and regain your self-confidence is to remove the external influence. As for me, I had to leave my home permanently. Over the years, I have learned many things, and I have been fortunate enough to have the best teachers you can think of. Talking about restoring your natural self-confidence, I have memorized the following obvious strategies I am happily sharing now.

1. Use your “wrongs” as benefits. Most of us have a lead back attitude when it comes to creating a picture about ourselves. Ironically, it often happens that something we have so much about, happens to be completely invisible to others. However, the trick is not to hide what you want to hide from others. This will lead to your freedom.

2. Don't try to be nice to everyone. Oh, this childhood desire to please everyone, trying to prove something to everyone. Ima. This is useless and waste your life and you as a person. For your own good, you should learn how to say NO.

3. Feel the power and freedom within accepting no. Sometimes it's scary, isn't it? All you need to learn here is that "No" has nothing to do with you, it's just speculation and - sometimes - it's your opponent's problem. You should never take it in person.

4. Compare only yourself with the previous one. Say "No" to any comparisons with other people. You do not know their condition, their circumstances, their origin, or their way of thinking. All you have to do is keep up the good content and keep up the good content.

5. Once you have selected something, any doubts - take it back! You know yourself, you know your way - don’t let others, even loved ones, distract you and leave you on your own.

6. If you need help ! You do not have to know everything, no one knows. There is no shame in asking for help for you. On the contrary, asking for help is a sign of maturity and self-confidence.

7. Your interest is paramount. It's not about yourself, it's about not skipping your Bali holiday because of doing your colleague's work until 3 in the morning.

8. Feel grateful, no matter what. There is no event in our lives for good or bad. We are the ones who make it bad and good. Try to find confidence in everything you face. Sometimes it's hard but it's still possible.

Self-confidence becomes you.

This is an incomparable joy - to be yourself. To face the world, don't be afraid to hurt someone with trash or by being who you really are. And that doesn't mean you have to be selfish and unconcerned. It's about happiness. And make others around you a little happier too.