This is a very simple word but love is un conditional.
When you were little every buddy teach you how to be kind, polite, respectful etc etc. Our mom taught us how to behave after marriage , how do we have to handle our home. We have to accept all our in laws as our family , taking care of them. But why no buddy teach us how to forget all your childhood memories, your parents house, Our parents and all other things and people who belongs to you.
Teach us that because we don’t know how to deal with all that feelings.No matter how much your in law’s shows other (and you) that they care for you and they are your parents. so many moment are there when you realise that you are not a part of that family, you are out sider.
If something happened to your husband or your brother/ sister in law then your in law’s will panic (even if it’s a mosquito bite).
But if you were sick or you slipped from vehicle or something bite you and your hand swallowed then they were so calm and laughing at you and making tickles that you are so soft and pampered that’s why all things happened to you etc etc. Sometimes your mood is off and you don’t like to talk about anything you need peace that they will not support you although they taunt you that your nature is very bad , you are so “nautanki bazz”. You don’t want to do house chores thats why you behaving like this and all that. Yes we are humen not a robot that we always were a smile no matter what. We feel things to.
Then you realise difference between parents and In law’s.
Yes they will take care of you when you were sick but as a wife of your son not as her child.
May be it is very small thing for others but when they are in our position then they can feel that pain . How hurtful it is.
This are basic things which I mentioned over here but a lot more things were happened with a girl when she realised that they are not there parents, no matter how hard you tried to accept them as your parents, you care for them but you always find a different.
i am nat telling you that all in law’s are like this but 95% of them are same. They can’t accept you as their daughter.
