I am no saint to give relationship advices but our life is a better preacher than anybody else can be ! Telling people and venting out what you have been through is cathartic ! Yes trust me on this. I was not a very gullible person but things were different when I was in a relationship it was so easy to make me agree on things he wanted to. When I look back at what all I did to sustain that relationship I feel miserable. When everybody else around me said he isn’t worth fighting for I stood by him awaiting to prove em all wrong. Yes ! we do get so blinded by love ! But it takes more time than normal to realise efforts and love was all one sided. Be it any relationship when efforts are not mutual it will struggle to last till the end. Love is not easy but you just need the right person beside you to face the hardships. No relationship should put our self respect at stake. If it is demanding to change yourself then just know it is not worth a penny. Also we are not selfish for wanting the same energy and love we give.
Why is it so difficult for us to move out of something which is draining us completely ? We know it isn’t going to last forever. We know that person is manipulating us to things which is not comforting us. We know it is draining our mind, soul and energy. Yet we stick to that human wanting for a change. After all we are humans too we still believe in HOPE.We just need to realise our self worth and know that we deserve much more than what we think ! Take time and think how drastic your life has changed after your relationship if it is in a good way, go ahead. if not just get out of it and never look back.
Yeah it is devastating and time consuming but believe in this process. You will love and feel confident about yourself than you did earlier. I was in there too yet I pulled this off. You are not in this alone. Start putting yourself above others and Stop being vulnerable to yourself in the name of love ! Can’t wait to see that Badass version of you ! ;)
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