After all it’s human flesh that we all are judging and wandering about. Off lately plus size is grabing attention and people have started accepting the fact that fat is the new sexy. Also  a typical Indian guy (mostly) has more affinity towards the so called ‘ chubby’ ones.  It is not always the plus size that feels insecure. Indeed a lot of celebrities who started losing weight have went down in the market. Yeah pathetic ! One day we want hour glass shape the other day we might want a more curvy shape. We should probably find ways to remain unaffected to what others think. I wish I knew that hack ! But seriously  No matter how hard  we convince ourselves that we can do better,  someone slides in and tells you how miserable your shape is ? 

Now we started lauding curvy women and we snubbes off the skinny ones. If big breast and butt is the only  assest that matters We all should probably head to cosmetic surgeons.Trust me  there would a longer que than covid vaccination drive. It is not only about women but Men get body shamed too. we all wanted the guy to be muscular which is what being man looks like according to most of the girls. Should we blame the society or films for setting such high standards or ourselves for accepting the reality ?.

Most of the men prefer C cup or D cup and wanted us to look like kim kardashian. It is not right for woman to want for muscular men like kapoor and khan’s as well. Just know that you should be a minimun of kanye west to demand such things. Just kidding! When will we start acknowledging a person for their personality ? I remember someone said Beauty is in the eyes of the observer. But do we actually see beyond what they eternally look like ? 
 
People want different things and they are never satisfied with what they have. It’s high time we start realising that skinny men or women might feel insecure too. They need some validation too! Let us not make friends for what they look like and know them better as a person. Appearances are deceptive. We grow old with wrinkles loose skin and thin body We can’t stop nature and ageing but we can feel good about ourselves and embrace the glorius mess we are ! Extra small matters too !