HEARTBREAK

A word often heard by you all. Some people might have experienced or might know people who have gone through the same. In our ordinary day of life, we tend to come across so many people who are in a relationship, but for how long no one knows. Sometimes it works between people, sometimes it don't.

Our generation is a bunch of people, always focused on their phones. What we show is only what the other people knows. No one wants to know what's going on in someone's mind. We have medicines for all physical injuries but do we have any medicine for mental injuries? There are few people who have had so many relationships in the past that they don't feel broken or feel very less emotions but there are also few people who are broken and need love to repair back. Heartbreak doesn't mean breaking of heart into pieces, it's an emotion we go through due to the secretion of oxytocin. This enzyme doesn't allow us to let go what we want to get rid of at the earliest. 

There are a lot of negative aspects of a heartbreak:- People tend to feel depressed, loss of weight, loss of apatite, lack of motivation and many more. But what we seem to neglect is the bright side. Our dark and dull side dominates what's coming next. We again have the opportunity to love our family members, to spend time with them, take care of them…….because when in a relation your good morning to good night revolves around that one person. And we tend to neglect others who are the important part of our life. Being in a relationship is not bad at all, but one must know how to manage time. Sometimes we are ready to change our entire schedule for that one person but we don't understand this that the person talks to us only during his/her free time. It's we who are sacrificing not them. A person who truly loves you will find multiple ways to talk to you, to keep you happy even when he/she is busy. 

So wait for the right time. Thinking about the same person again and again who gave you a broken past isn't great. About 40% of the suicides in India happens due to this breakup problems. We are ready to sacrifice ourselves for the person who gave us a vulnerable past but we are not ready to improve ourselves for the ones who are waiting for us in the future. Don't be in a hurry to experience what loving someone feels like but it's a slow process. 

And remember, THERE'S ALWAYS SLIGHT CHANCE THAT WHAT'S BROKEN CAN BE REPAIRED, IF NOT IT CAN BE CHANGED INTO SOMETHING ELSE WHICH IS MORE PRODUCTIVE.

KIM NAMJOON of BTS said:- " If you want to love someone else, you should love yourself first."