This is my first blog in my life till now, I am just sharing my personal experience and thoughts in this blog, hope you all like it.
Each and every girl in their life just dream about very caring and loving partner who just never lets you down and always think about you and nothing else. I am not different from this thought , me too same. Likewise one day I saw him and fell in love with him , now we are married.
Have you heard people used to say this dialogues to the one who are in love or to the one who is getting married,
People used to say, before marriage, every guy will take care of girl and love them like no one you would encountered till now, once you got married and had child, they will just change.
What do you think? Whatever I am saying is true or not?
YES, its absolutely true. From my personal experience and encounters I believe, guys actually get changed after marriage. I do have many questions based on whatever happening in my life, I request everyone kindly share your thoughts and advice so that I can assure myslef that I am not wrong. If there is any mistakes I can correct myslef to moveon in my life.
Here are some incidents in my life,
My husband and me when we were newly married , we went to chennai to apply for a passport, I went inside for the verification process and my hubby was outside waiting for me without eating. We were really hungry since we travelled long distance from our village. He was waiting for me without having anything, untill I came out, I was very much happy by seeing his care on me that time.
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But now its exactly opposite scenario , he never even bother to ask whether I ate or not.
I just as myself thousand times , why do anyone can change so fast, is this love? Does anyone's love and care change so fast? Did I made a mistake by blindly believing him? Do we need to earn money in exchange to receive their kindness? I have so many questions like this? Will I able to receive the same kindness and caring till the end of my life?
Thank you everyone for viewing and pls everyone share their thoughts on this blog and mention the mistakes if so , I can overcome.
Hi Kalpana, as a guy I can suggest to you only one thing, change doesn't happen only on one side if he is the only one who changed, you should also change.. some advice
1. stop expecting the same scenarios which you had with him in past
2. believing him is not a mistake, it is the trust you have in him, don't lose it
3. if you are a homemaker, try to make food which he likes, and do some mistakes (remember it should not be perfect) by adding less salt, he will definitely question you about the mistake, then you can say like "I made this for you, but it failed" this will remind him your effort
4. don't feel or worry, it's all common in life.
5. If this works out, I need a consultation fee.. ha ha
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I have ssuggestions for you. Firstly, don't always be so close to your partner, distance can strengthen relationship and second, never ever flatter them or make some fictious promises be practical and real. I hope it works for you and everyone.
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Hey dear, I understand what you mean. As a married person for a long time, I would say is to stop having expectations from anyone. You get hurt because of that only. Be happy.
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