We don't take anyone for granted to stay with us for our entire life. Sometimes we do this without recognizing the mindset of the opposite person. We cannot expect a person to remain in our life permanently sometimes you end up in conflicts due to unexplainable circumstances you cut off the person from your life or vice versa. Here, I would like to describe two kinds of temporary people in our lives.
The first category of temporary ones is very clear from the beginning that they won't remain long enough in our lives but they give their 100% while we spent the time together. The best example would be some of your college friends, you spent a hostel life and you had an amazing friend's gang. You know very well, that almost all of you are from a different part of the state or country and could not again sit together again like you did while you studied in college. Maybe, you could but, not like it whenever you want because you get into your busy life.
Although you can conduct get together, it wouldn't be like the old times. You may connect with your friends through the phone maybe for a year or two then the relationship starts fading away because both of you started building new friendships and you tend to spend more time with your new friends who are around you. This is common and I am not stating everybody does the same there are exceptions as well. These types of temporary people when with us are honest and loyal, you feel the lacuna they create.
Let's look into the next category of temporary people in our lives. These are the type of people who assure you they will remain in our lives and stay with us during our hard times but when the time comes they just vanish. This is deliberate and when you pass by the crisis they come back to you listing the reasons why they weren't there for you. You trust them because you believe they're your soulmates but what are they really doing?
They like your friendship or companionship and they want that happy vibe always but they don't want to deal with a crisis because what matters to them is fun, apart from that they are least concerned about you. It takes time to recognize such people because they are playful and they try to remain in the field without getting kicked out. These types of people take advantage of you and they leave you without giving a hint.
This might be heart-breaking when you do not receive love or care/ loyality from the person you expected it from. But, keep yourself prepared when you start off a friendship, a relationship, or whatever involving humans there are high chances it could be temporary. Even if you believe they will be there for you, keep at least a fraction of your heart occupied with the fact it could be temporary. If you have this in your subconscious you will overcome the loss of your valuable relations.
In a nutshell, it is quite ironic that the people you know, who are temporary in your life give their best when they are with you and the people who deceive you telling they will be the part of the rest of your life, hurts you and leaves you unexpectedly and gives the least care about you.
