Hello all! I don't know why my views are not updated in the rewards window. If you know how to fix this problem kindly let me know. Okay, keeping everything aside let us start our blog. Have you ever come across the NPD person?  If not let me tell you their traits which always have psychological effects on you. They look completely like a normal person until you get to know them personally. They have some strange way of getting pleasure by hurting others. They survive only because they made someone a victim of their play. 

 NPD person can't be emotionally attached to people even though they have a family and children. For this kind of person, the family and children should not cross the boundary or words that have been laid. Here the boundary that is laid would not be the common one as other families have but it's the sickliest and ugliest one. 

For example, I have an NPD father and there won't be any declared boundaries instead there would be many invisible boundaries that we could sense. Automatically we are tuned to that boundary that my father wants. No member of my family is allowed to talk to their friends and do and act according to their thoughts and feelings. Only then we can have peace in our family. 

To come out of this NPD abuse, come far away from them as far as possible because distance is what is needed to maintain a calm relationship such as a father and children relationship. 

If the partner is NPD then unfortunately you have to break up the relationship. 

NPDs won't find any emotional attachment as I said, they will use us only because their tricks on us are well played. For example, the wife does chores, the children support them, and both the wife and children are under control. 

Sometimes they will take our emotions and they will play with that. According to this kind of person if you want to take revenge you want to trigger them by not giving any reactions. We should always maintain calm behaviour in front of them that's a big trigger for them. And then their treatment sometimes would be so harsh and that too we want to deal with a calm demeanour.

Sometimes we cannot tell all the problems because mostly it would be invisible spells that are being played. When we share that problem with others it would be absurd to the core for the listener only the victim will have the effect and pain. Note , mostly  it would be psychological attacks that make an impact on their life so it can't seen by others.