Throughout our life we may be in situation where we would seek comfort from our family and friends. Do you know the reason why we get the comfort after we are touched by that trusted person. Its actually because our skin are designed in that way, we all know that skin is a largest organ of the body. Your skin will expose whaterver you are feeling towards the person near you. Sometimes you may sweat, blush, goosebumps,etc..
Coming to the hugs, whenever we are hugghed by someone our skin will realese oxytocin. This hormone will help you to build the trust and it will help to seek trust also. Its kind of assurance that you are getting from the person and feeling the closeness through that.
I don't how many of you are aware of this term called ‘skin hunger’. If you notice the born babies, at once when the mother holds them the baby will stop crying. So this is an inbuilt system in our body. The first touch we feel is our mother where the baby could sense safe and protection.
Likewise, whenever we feel sad or vulnerable we would automatically move to our trusted people to get the comfort we want. A little pat on shoulder, holding the hands, a warm hug or a kiss may help the person to feel ease. When words can't convey or express something the touch can and we could also feel the genuine in it.
Many of them would come across this particular kind of friend who always be clingy. We will also complain about that to them but they wouldn't bother😂. So this kind of people are called tactile. This kind of people always tend to connect with the sense of touch. We can't complain them since their bond construction is that way.
Something also known as tactile memory. It is like we could recognize the person through touch alone. Its interesting right our skin is something great and mystical. We could also differentiate the touches of each and every person by a simple hug itself. If you don't believe or realized yet, test it with your friends and family but every one will have this sense may be few are not aware of it.
Sometimes we will feel safe around the particular person and seek to be close with that person. The crave to get touched and to feel the warm of the person is because of horomone oxytocin.
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