Have you ever lost someone who was very close to you?

Someone with whom you shared a special bond which is beyond words.

Someone who's thought surround you in the crowd.

If that person strikes your mind while reading this that definitely trust me he/she was someone you'd always miss.

Someone whose absence can never be filled by somebody's else presence.

But this loss is not just because of someone's demise, many a times a relation dies. 

May be because we took his/her presence for granted.

If you think so that just because of your misconduct , you lost someone you loved as in forever and ever.

Then take my words, your are not wrong. It's not always your mistake. A relations goes hand in hand. Two hands come together to start a journey either of ‘friendship’ or any other one.

Even if you wish to clap , you need to have both your hands coming together to join and applaud either an achievement or a milestone. But you know what , a single hand does???

It's raised either to point at someone or to slap someone. Make someone feel inferior, hurt someone to the core and break them down to tears. 

So was it always your fault? Was it always your duty to bow down and apologies. Is it always you who need to say sorry even for things which you didn't do. Are you always being the target of being quoted as someone with an ‘attitude’ just because you have your own independent opinion than others.

If any relation, no matter what so ever it be is trying to make you feel inferior, trying to crush your identity. So its better to set yourself free from all such relations; because what matters is your inner peace. If any relation shed you down to tears and breaks you down every night, then trust me you have got yourself caught up with something that is actually stressing you mentally and physically. 

You matter and your happiness is something which should always be your own priority. In order to give importance to someone, don't loose yours. Don't bend down soooo…much that someone starts treating you as a door mat. 

So, my dear reader, if you are reading is just remember this mantra “ You Matter!!!” No one will ever take your place . Take a deep breath and bid farewell to people who ain't worth your thoughts and mind.