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A Middle-class Family's Struggle Story Part-2

Published Jul 16, 2021
4 mins read
878 words

My mother was devastated and all of a sudden everything changed, everyone was started ignoring my mother and my Nana and Nanny. And there come the issues which separated the family. My mother became all along by herself, she got weaken with her grades in school. So she changed the school, just now everything was getting well, all coming back on track,
One day she got the news that my Nana got a stroke and one side of his body got paralysed.
This was the moment when My mother was about to broke down but she gathered herself cause, she knows she has to look after her " paralyzed father and blind mother " she started to get some tuitions and my Nana was a government employee so the office helps my mother with the treatment.
She was copping up with all her work all " tuitions, then office and the household chores and taking care of her parents".
It wasn't an easy task but she was doing an excellent job.
Here is the point where 'My Parents' meets each other. Cause my youngest aunt and my mother were best friends.
After my mother changes her school she got to meet my aunt from there they both were friends.
She used to Maa's place to visit her, or my mother used to go to her place, from there my Grandmother get to know her (My Mother).
My mother was doing her best to cure her father.
On the other hand, My father was doing multiple jobs to take care of his family.
Then he decided to take a big jump and complete his Diploma from ITI Institute of Tollygunj, Kolkata in mechanics and look for a better worthy job.
He worked in BATA at Kolkata then my father asked one of his brother who was in Bhopal -  "can he come there to search for a job".
In this duration, my Mother and my Father got introduced through my youngest aunt, and my grandmother also used to love my Mother a lot, she used to admire her. So she thought of offering a marriage proposal to my Nana and Nanny for my Mother before my Father leave for Bhopal,
So everything has gotta fixed up, now my Mother was completing her studies here in Kolkata and taking tuitions and my Father left for Bhopal in search of a better job.
Now here, in Bhopal, My Father cracked his interview and got a job in a company and he was staying with his brother ( Deepu das) and his wife.
But after a while, my uncle (Deepu Das) and his wife started treating my Father very badly, the worst thing they used to take all his salary and him empty-handed and whenever he tries to leave the place they used to force him physically, emotionally to stay. One of our cousins visited Bhopal to meet my Father,  he gets to know the condition of my Father and shred this news to my grandmother, my aunt and my Mother as well. Then everyone decided that this is the time when my Father should get married and should live separately.
Soon on the 21st of January 1990 they both got married, and they both came back to Bhopal, they started to look for a new place to shift till that time they were living with my uncle ( Deepu das) and day by day everything was getting worst, my uncle and his wife started with their worst treat ever, they used to abuse my parents n treat very badly so my Mother took a step forward and decided to shift immediately, very soon my parents got shifted to an apartment.
It was a small 1HK room and it was the struggle period when my Father just started his job, then again they shifted to a place which was near to the office cause back that time there was hardly any transport was available so it was very difficult to travel to office and again back home. 
So they shifted to Mandideep. Then slowly when they were started to grow their financial establishment they were gifted with a child on 16th May 1994 I was born.
And that was the day when a new struggle was started, a struggle of giving a better life to their kid, a life that will be more comfortable without the problems they have to face.
Then I grew older and it was time for admission into the school.
So, my mother decided to give me the best education, so she planned to take me to a convent school and " I got the admission" and when my Uncle (Deepu das) get to know this news he came to our house with his wife, not to congratulate us but to criticise us, make our moral down, because my father financial was not that high as compare to my uncle's so he said- " how are we gonna afford the school fees? How we gonna compete with the academic? How are we gonna cope up with everything?
That day my Mother decided almost you can say took an oath of making me strong enough to fight with this cruel world.
World criticised and I grew much more than that.

𝚃𝚘 𝙱𝚎 𝙲𝚘𝚗𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚞𝚎𝚍……….

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royanupam033 7/16/21, 3:26 PM
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sheetal.thakur 7/16/21, 3:27 PM
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Good and very interesting story
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