It's a harsh reality that middle aged men are attracted to younger women which results in affecting their married life. So how is this affecting children now ? Because a children learns from his surroundings and if everyone out there are fighting over small things and creating negative environment this will make child cranky and stubborn.
Parent's than expect from their child to behave like a mature one and stay positive and playful but they don't understand that from the beginning they've been teaching the child this is how every relation is , this can create a huge impact on their lives the as the child can suffer from depression and anxiety . Now how that child will learn to deal with the parent's fighting ? Here are some things which a child can do..
He can surround himself with good atmosphere where he can learn the difference between what is good for and what is bad . He can someone older in his family to sort things between his parents and ask them to keep the environment lively and fresh. He should keep himself busy with the stuff he likes to do. But what if isn't safe at home ?
In recent studies it has been found that child facing problem his parents fighting continuously day in and day out , he might get some kind of disorders like PTSD ( post-traumatic disease syndrome), which can lead to long term recovery time and can depress a child for lifetime. It can leave child emotionally numb , avoidance of public places , he might also get nightmares, flashbacks and events which reminds him of that trauma.
Fights between parents can lead to health issues too, As a result such children often start to find comfort in food, they may either stop eating or over-eat. They could suffer from headaches or stomach aches. They may even have trouble falling asleep at night. The child might be unable to concentrate on studies as his mind is pre-occupied in constant fear and uncertainty.
How to fix child's mental health now? First of all apologizes him for making things stressful and disturbing, offer him affection and love . Approach your children and tell them about your conflicts ,tell them how you sorted them . Clam the children down and teach him that what you were doing is not acceptable and he shouldn't be doing the same mistake in life. and promise them that you will never fight in front of the child.
P.S - it is my first blog so if there's any mistake so please ignore it.
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