Lack of trust it is one of the reasons for relationships to fall apart. Trust is the driving factor in relationships interpersonal between husband and wife among co-workers in office, in the realm of business between the company and its clients etc. . Building trust is a two way process it is important to trust and equally important to be trusted. That requires mutual effort and commitment.
Imagine you have an ailment. You go to a doctor who also happens to be your friend. Examiners you and you undergo a surgery in medical terms that is not a major procedure but in common terms it is an operation a term that is frightening. Yet you remain calm. Why?
Because: you have complete rest and your friend. You know he would never perform a procedure without complete confidence that he could do it. You know he would be extremely careful. You know he would minimise the pain as much as possible. Because you trust him you relax and let him do his job. You don't doubt his ability. You never question whatever he is doing. Even when you feel occasional discomfort you know it was just part of the procedure.
Trust changes everything even how you approach pain.
Contrast to the situation where you go to a doctor you do not know. If you feel a slight pain you begin to question either his heart or his ability. Does he know what is doing? Desi care that is hurting you? Is there doctor heartless?
But when you know and trust your doctor it might be uncomfortable but it is not frightening you can endure the pain because you trust the person.
Trust is all or nothing. Cherish it and it grows. Like a tender young sapling it demands constant care and concern.
Often we tend more than one thing when we use the word trust. Four such variables can be described as credibility reliability intimacy and self orientation.
Trust is everything in marriage. Imagine a life: your spouse goes to work and you don't have peace of mind because your mind is full of doubts, your partner checks your messages and is not ready to accept that it is just friend from your school,I want to share a secret with his powers but you are not sure if she will keep the secret.
For many couples what they think is their biggest problem is not really their biggest problem. They believe they have a communication issue of restoration with family balance. At what they really have a trust issues. Distrust really reveals itself as distrust. It appears in some other form. Most communication struggle is a byproduct of distrust. We can communicate anything to anyone of a trust them. Trust changes everything. Trust is the core of a good marriage. Show me a couple who can endure any circumstance. Without trust, intimacy dies. With dressed it flourishes.
In 2011, Mr. Anil Ambani recounted this anecdote to underscore that trust was the foundation on which his illustratious father Shri dhirubhai ambani built his life his enormous wealth of relationship and one of the greatest business empires.
When Kaikeyi approached dashratha for the grant of her boons, he was devastated and broken. How could you send a special love Rama to exile? How could you deny him the righteous one, to the throne? How could he nominate Bharata as his successor?
But equally good effort to break his word and not keep his promise? Dashrath knew the answer but had his moment of doubt. Rama on the other hand had none. When the news of his terrible fate was broken to him by Kaikeyi, not dashrath who was too distraught to talk Rama was the very picture of tranquility.
Father had given his word could Rama ever think of going back on it? Could there be a higher example of trust? Lord Rama new in his heart at rest is not about taking shortcuts it is also not about taking the easy way out.
The absolute sanctity Mr dhirubhai ambani attach to trust is reflected in the very name that he gave to his business enterprise 'RELIANCE' .
