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Are you and your partner going through a difficult time right now? Or are the recent arguments, the antagonistic exchanges, or the dominating actions simply more indications that you are in a poisonous relationship?

It's difficult to love someone who always leaves you feeling exhausted. Particularly when that individual has the ability to heal your physical, mental, or emotional wounds and then return to you. There exist toxic connections! Even while it can be simple for us to see flaws and difficulties in other people's relationships, we could ignore problems in our own relationships.

For this reason, we shall cover every topic pertaining to toxic relationships in one piece. We will begin by defining a toxic relationship and outlining the most typical types of relationships.

If you look up the meaning of "love" in a dictionary or ask individuals, most of them will tell you that it has to do with ideas like nurturing, caring for, and protecting. Most of the time, love is defined as a very beneficial human connection.

Indeed, there will be challenging days along the route. Yes, there will undoubtedly be depressing moments. But when we love someone, these difficult situations don't take away from our deep bond with them.

We are discussing love because poisonous relationships might appear to be loving but are not. What, though, makes a difference? Have you ever watched the documentaries about deadly plants or animals on the Discovery Channel? They are frequently breathtakingly gorgeous. However, if we come into contact with them, they might release chemicals into our systems that could kill us or create a host of other illnesses.

Toxic connections function similarly, though. It might appear to be love at first glance. There could be something about the other person that attracts us and makes us fall in love. In actuality, though, we can be dating or engaged to someone who consistently drains, stresses, overwhelms, or even terrifies us.

Sometimes it is difficult to tell if we are in a toxic relationship because of our cultural background, our family history, or our degree of self-esteem. For instance, it's possible that we were raised in a home with dysfunctional family dynamics, where we frequently experienced yelling or a lack of appreciation. Perhaps the gender stereotypes that constrain how men and women behave in relationships are ingrained in our culture. Alternatively, it's possible that we have relied too much on others to determine our worth as individuals.

There are many different things that could cause us to be in a toxic relationship. It is important that you learn how to recognize one if you are in one right now.

The following is a list of warning signs that you should be aware of:

Insincerity
Toxic relationships are characterized by a persistent feeling of dishonesty. We're not referring to the white lies we all occasionally tell ourselves to get out of completing duties around the house or to avoid an uninteresting party. Rather, feeling as though your partner is constantly lying or cheating on you might be a sign of dishonesty in a relationship. Or that you might feel forced to tell lies in order to keep your partner from taking violent revenge.

Controlling behaviors come in a variety of forms. While some individuals find it endearing when their partners get a touch envious when they make small talk at a bar, controlling behavior goes much beyond that. The impulse to control the other person's social life and relationships is a hallmark of unhealthy relationships.

If someone flirts with you, goes out for coffee with pals, or shows up for a work lunch, you might notice that your partner is envious. But keep in mind that jealousy is a symptom of possession rather than love.

Here are a few instances of red flags:

Are you really so dumb? It's me that consistently gets things done correctly!
"You are not cared for by your family. The only person who loves you is me.
"You are really rather worthless! You ought to be embarrassed of yourself.
"Would you rather stay with me or go out with your friend?" 
"I cheated, and that was your fault. You left me with no other option.
"You must pardon me. I love you more than anyone else does.
distinct varieties of libel.

Please don't justify your partner's actions anymore! Something is not working if you find yourself having to defend your partner's behaviors, attitudes, or statements in front of your family and friends on a regular basis. Because no one in a toxic relationship accepts responsibility for their behaviors, these partnerships frequently continue. The only message you are conveying when you defend your partner's actions is that you will put up with whatever they do as long as it suits you.

Indeed! IT IS YOUR CHOICE! You might choose to close a chapter in your life or leave a relationship that is causing you pain. While ending a relationship can be tough, keep in mind that you are valuable as a person and that you have options. It's acceptable to decide that you no longer want to be in a relationship! You have the freedom to decide who you want to spend the upcoming months, years, or perhaps eternity with.

Unhealthy relationships can be healed by healthy ones. We're not advocating splitting up with your spouse and going out on the dating scene in search of another. No, what we're talking about is making the time to be with the people that make you feel valued and loved. That may be your mother, your father, your sibling, or your closest friend. You might choose to spend time with individuals who understand you, encourage you through difficult moments, and provide you the room to rediscover who you are after a split.

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